Is it improper grammar to ask your mate, "Honey, CAN you, please...(i.e.,open the door, fix the sink, hand me the towel etc.?)
I'm American, but my mate (from England) says this is improper grammar to ask "CAN YOU" when asking for a favor.
He finds this phrasing wimpy. He insists that I should just say, Honey "open the window, or hand me this, or do this." Without using a question phrase.
Whenever I ask "can you, please," he automatically and robotically answers (in a snidey mocking fashion) "CAN I OR WILL I ?" I have heard this 1.000 times, but still go on asking, Honey Can you please?" Maybe because I am intimidated.
I need to know if his behavior is a control thing or a grammar thing.
Is he right?
When he wants a favor from me, he just makes demands like, "I need this letter typed now!", or complains "I don't have any clean clothes!" or jokes "I'm totally surrounded without tea and cookies."
2007-03-07
13:22:52
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