Hi
I've just split up with my boyfriend. Although 90% of our relationship is so Good, he often shouts & swears at me for no reason. He doesn’t “lose his temper”, he just thinks it’s appropriate 2 shout & swear. I told him 2day that he has2 stop doing this as it hurts me, or at least accept afterwards that he shouldn’t have been like that & apologise. He believes it’s not being rude & it’s just the way he is & I have to deal with it. So we’ve split up. I love him so much, but believe that I am compromising my integrity 4 him to behave like that 2wards me. I feel so rubbish & he’s made me feel like it’s such an insignificant thing & that I’m the one with the problem. But although it is a small thing, I feel it’s fundamental & that some1 who loves U should always treat U in a respectful way. Or at least apologise 4 it afterwards if they’ve upset you. Have I done the right thing? I'mso sad to lose all the amazing things about ‘us’ but couldn’t take him being so rude & horrible
2007-03-08
03:50:05
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rollacoasta
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