When I'm in a conversation, I sometimes concentrate completely on my eye-contact that I don't even pay attention to what the other person is saying. I mean, people around here look you directly in your eyes when talking and I just get confused by that. Sometimes, I feel weird if I keep looking into their eyes so I start moving my eyes away ones in awhile. But I'm so focused on appropriate eye contact and not coming off weird, lovey-dovey, intimidating, or awkward that I just CANNOT pay attention to the message that is being given. Then I just act like I have heard the whole thing by agreeing when I'm just making sure I'm doing the appropriate thing with my eyes. Half the time, I don't even know what to do with my eyes during a conversation? I look at the other person's eyes and it's just akward. Is eye contact tricky, sidetracking, or difficult for anyone else in discussions? What do you all do during discussions with regard to eye contact? They always say show good eye contact.
2007-02-03
21:35:43
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