She told us that she bought herself her Christmas gift. $700 worth of landscaping, much of it paid for with cash and gift cards that she'd begged for on her birthday earlier this month.
Now she's saying that because of this, she can't afford any gifts except for those for our three youngest cousins. (My cousins range in age from 14 to my 33-year-old self.) The rest of us are "too old" to have any kind of presents anyway. Yet those of us who are "too old" have gotten her the gift cards she begged for, at least $10 or $25 worth.
She also tried getting us to go to a poor neighbor's house on Christmas and give them stuff in person, which several of us thought would embarrass them, because she says we were never taught about charity. Our parents beg to differ, and so does the guy at H&R Block when he does my tax write-offs.
So, what is the right response to my grandmother when I see her? Because I'd like to organize a game of rugby on her new lawn, with cleats.
2007-12-17
03:53:17
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GreenEyedLilo
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