Society & Culture - 25 October 2007

i met this married man three months ago in a drinking session and we end up having sex. it's my first time to do it with a man and honestly i enjoy it, being kiss and hug by another man but this is more on physical sex as we both love our wives and kids. this meeting goes on at least every week, we enjoy our company and after sex we go back to our wives, this is very discreet and we're doing safe methods. my sex with my wife had improved since then and she enjoys the new enthusiasm. i know i cheated my wife the worst to another man. i'm thinking on telling her but i don't know how and i'm loking for the right time. i'm weighing the option that my wife will freak out and this secret will go out to our families and friends. i don't know what to do..if i tell my wife and she accept it will my cheating be absolved. incase she agreed that i continue seing this man while we remain married is the cheating no longer an issue. please help me make up my mind??? thanks!!

2007-10-25 22:15:55 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Religion & Spirituality

i met this married man three months ago in a drinking session and we end up having sex. it's my first time to do it with a man and honestly i enjoy it, being kiss and hug by another man but this is more on physical sex as we both love our wives and kids. this meeting goes on at least every week, we enjoy our company and after sex we go back to our wives, this is very discreet and we're doing safe methods. my sex with my wife had improved since then and she enjoys the new enthusiasm. i know i cheated my wife the worst to another man. i'm thinking on telling her but i don't know how and i'm loking for the right time. i'm weighing the option that my wife will freak out and this secret will go out to our families and friends. i don't know what to do..if i tell my wife and she accept it will my cheating be absolved. incase she agreed that i continue seing this man while we remain married is the cheating no longer an issue. please help me make up my mind??? thanks!!

2007-10-25 22:13:09 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender

Like the latest cool things, consert tickets, vanity photos, "cool" things in general.etc.

You know, the type of mother that tries to make theirs sons and daughters cool. Usually making them arrogant.

2007-10-25 22:11:42 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Society & Culture

Hey christians did you know that X-mas n easter are PAGAN holidays/celebrations and that jesus was actually born either in fall or spring.
If christinaty says that paganism is evil (which explain the christains i know who are trying to make halowwen illegal) then why do u celebrate festivals which originated from there

2007-10-25 22:10:17 · 16 answers · asked by possessed by insanity 3 in Religion & Spirituality

If the story is true he knew he was going to heaven to be worshiped by millions. Millions of people suffer considerably longer and more painful deaths.

2007-10-25 22:10:00 · 12 answers · asked by ClubbingSeals.com 2 in Religion & Spirituality

2007-10-25 22:06:42 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Religion & Spirituality

i like to cross dress out side and at work but i afrid of being beaten up or fired from my job

2007-10-25 22:05:31 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender

Do people take this scripture literally?:

"But he said unto them, All men cannot receive this saying, save they to whom it is given. For there are some eunuchs, which were so born from their mother's womb: and there are some eunuchs, which were made eunuchs of men: and there be eunuchs, which have made themselves eunuchs from the kingdom of heaven's sake. He that is able to receive it, let him receive it." (Matthew 19:11-12) The Scholar's Version has: "There are castrated men who castrated themselves because of Heaven's imperial rule. If you are able to accept this (advice), do so."

Or is this another case of Pick'N'Mixism where you only follow the bits you like and take the rest to be "metaphors"?

2007-10-25 22:02:16 · 5 answers · asked by Cotton Wool Ninja 6 in Religion & Spirituality

believe they are God's chosen people.
Who is right? The people that invented, or God chose, or the Christians, Muslims etc?

2007-10-25 22:01:34 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Religion & Spirituality

What do you think about this is it good/bad or odd?

2007-10-25 22:01:16 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Christmas

And this isn't an anti-american question by the way, just curious. But why do people in America use the UK Yahoo answers? Is there not an American one or do they just prefer this one?

2007-10-25 22:00:34 · 16 answers · asked by Heather M 2 in Other - Cultures & Groups

2007-10-25 21:46:46 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Religion & Spirituality

saw an advert for Iceland in National Trust Magazine and it stated among other things that Iceland boasted 9 Santa's never heard of this before has anyone else?

2007-10-25 21:44:57 · 2 answers · asked by Stevie 2 in Mythology & Folklore

Does your fella have them and if so do you pay attention to them in the bedroom or is he embarrased by them, do you like to play with them and does he enjoy it if you do.Also if you had to guess what cup size do you think they would be .

2007-10-25 21:34:22 · 11 answers · asked by sister 4 in Other - Society & Culture

tell me would you decide to be kicked out of your home, to have your parents dislike you and disown you because of who you desire,
would you choose to be ridiculed by people who dont know what your about.
and even after this has happened, would you not choose to go back the the "acceptable" option, face torment by those who choose to hate you.

so what makes you think that a gay guy chose it, what makes you think that someone, who was discriminated agasint, wouldnt just change their minds again.

Do you really think being gay is a choice?

2007-10-25 21:34:10 · 16 answers · asked by Paul E 5 in Religion & Spirituality

http://uk.news.yahoo.com/rtrs/20071026/tts-uk-primates-extinction-e892cc9_2.html

I wondered why there were still monkeys, then wondered why they are going extinct?

2007-10-25 21:31:55 · 38 answers · asked by Link strikes back 6 in Religion & Spirituality

and does it also mean that the god people will have to go somewhere else after a while? if so where somewhere else?

2007-10-25 21:29:59 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Religion & Spirituality

1. Would you send "bad people" to hell or would you just put them out of there misery like a diseased dog?

2. Would you expect perfection out of your imperfect creations?

3. Would you allow evil to exist and do it's HARM on mankind or would you speak it out of existence so none of your loved ones would suffer?

2007-10-25 21:25:35 · 21 answers · asked by 12th 3 in Religion & Spirituality

Earlier, my neighbor and i were downstairs and while we were talking and her brother came outside and somehow we started flirting, she was trying to talk to me and we kept interrupting her going back in forth with witty banter.

It's was really quite funny, but she didn't get half of what we were saying so she just kind of looked on. She asked me to come over tomorrow morning and her brother let me know that he'd be there (in his morning best ;).

I just wanna know if that was mean and how to include her.

2007-10-25 21:25:32 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Etiquette

I've been reading lots of responses from people who take the Great Flood story literally. One of the main ideas they're espousing is that Noah took baby animals, so they'd take up less space in this "football field and a half" sized Ark. That's grasping at straws, and here's a few reasons:

1) If all those animals aboard the Ark were babies (because they needed to be small) then how did they get to the Ark, crawl thousands of miles? What about fresh water fish? did they squirm their way over land to the Ark?

2) Baby animals can't survive on their own without their mommys and daddys! Most would die within days after the Ark settled on dry land (not to mention caged for 40 days in the disease laden Ark). How are baby eagles supposed to survive after the Ark landed? Baby eagles NEED to be fed regurgitated food from mommy! Did Noah eat worms and puke into the little chickies mouths?

2007-10-25 21:23:58 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Religion & Spirituality

I had a 'friend' of MANY yrs.but got sick and tired of being her sounding board so to speak / plus everytime we ever did anything like go to NYC or a movie,it was always her way or the highway
She also let it be known to me about her jealousies of me, abt the fact I have a good husband complaining she has no one. and that she has bills piled up to her head and I don't have to worry abt that. That she's a caregiver to her Mother and mine is independent plus married. All she ever did was act either angry at me for successes in my life as well as other things I've achieved/I guess I just got sick of feeling like her therapist when she wasn;'t really there for me.
I don't know anyone else around here.
All my relatives live out of state/yes I have a good husband but one must have friends too,right?
I feel like I'm starting at square one w/my social life,help!
p.s. tried to be as supportive as I could w/that 'friend' but always felt like the perpetual giver and ended up feeling very use

2007-10-25 21:20:40 · 12 answers · asked by Auntie Marie SueB 3 in Senior Citizens

When you watch the news you hear about preachers molesting young children, how can people that say there people of god, do such a thing???? Did god make them do this??? What the hell is going on with believers today???? You all down people who dont believe. Yet behind closed doors, you all do this. And then the believers on here get a attitude when people question their lifestyle. Correct me if I am wrong but people of god dont do this regardless of what people say to them or do to them. How can believers call themsevles good people yet they do everything I mention?
Let the answers begin and lets see who they true believers are!!!

(no I dont believe all people of god are like this, just the majority)

2007-10-25 21:19:16 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Religion & Spirituality

Most adults, when asked about their religion, say something along these lines: "I was raised Catholic" or I was raised Baptist etc... very few say "I am a Christian" or anything of the sort... almost like an apology to their own intellect for accepting irrationalities on faith just because their parents did...

2007-10-25 21:16:28 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Religion & Spirituality

where do i buy corsets, fake nails, womens clothes without getting laughed at, a wig, panies, dresses or skirts, nail polish high heels, tights, makeup, and EVERYTHING ELSE that women wear! And i need more ideas than that, my friends that are girls will dress me up in all these to make me look like a real girl, and whatever she likes bests in your ideas is what she's gonna make me wear. I don't like it but "a bets a bet"!<:(

2007-10-25 21:11:02 · 2 answers · asked by Jake S 1 in Halloween

I am thinking if i married a cristian she leave me as a hindu. and she continue as cristian we can both seperately practice our religions.

2007-10-25 21:06:34 · 10 answers · asked by MANJUNATH S 2 in Religion & Spirituality

Although I'm gay, I'm for the research and I hope they do discover sonething to change homosexuality to hetrosexuality.

I don't like the way gays have been trying to stop the research.
What are your veiws on the research?

2007-10-25 21:03:17 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender

those that just want to live as they see fit and those that want to tell others how to live?

2007-10-25 21:02:45 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Religion & Spirituality

some information hoe to look after elderly people

2007-10-25 21:01:07 · 2 answers · asked by ma.lena p 1 in Community Service

I happen to think those who claim to have once been atheists (as adults) and "Converted" later to become beleovers, were raised in beleif and reverted back to the faith of their birth, or searching for some spiritual enlightenment, But if you are not superstitious, I don't see how you can become superstitious later and lose your critical thinking faculty.

2007-10-25 21:00:29 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Religion & Spirituality

Why do you worry so much about other people sex lives, like homosexuals, and people who are having sex outside of marriage! Or preying on the atheists! Forcing your views on us?
There are a great many other things you could be concentrating on, like homelessness, or hunger, or why there are so many orphans, that no one wants!
Wouldn't your time be better spent on doing things that would make a difference, than sticking your nose in people's lives?
People are not going to stop being who they are, just cuz you say so!

2007-10-25 20:55:13 · 30 answers · asked by cassandra 3 in Religion & Spirituality