We are curently trying to save up the $$ to put a new house on the land we have. We'd like to have a small Christmas this year, and only exchange gift with our kids, and perhaps something small for each set of parents. Problem is, we have several friends and also my sister-in-law and her family, my in-laws, and some cousins who are all very gift oriented, and into the commercialization of the holiday season (where my sister in law is concerned, it doesnt matter what she and her kids get, as long as she can tell it's costly!). My parents are in total agreement and we will only be enjoying a family meal out when the holidays arrive. I usually start my shopping about now, so I need to know WHO I'm gonna be buying for!
We'd like to approach them or even email them and basically say, "hey, give us the gift of letting us save up for our house and not having to buy y'all expensive crap this year."
See...I'm not a tactful person!!! What is the best approach to this situation, ettiqute-wise?
2006-07-01
15:14:09
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MeMi96
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