I went for help when my family life was out of control in 1999 plus i had a drug problem, I had a very stong relationship with this therapist, who had been the family therpait at first , she was also in recovery she sent me to tx and I became a member of NA I cleaned up and was supposed to go back to her ater drug tx but she did not like the way Iwas acting , kind of possesive, he had me diagnosed a BPD (which is very misunderstood) she had made aot of mistakes boundary wise in the beginning in order to get me to trust her, she made herself available by phone at all times,(24hrs) plus she saw me 3 times a week, her actions actually made the borderline worse(if it existed in the first place) I believe , (i had emotional abandonment issues as a kid), I had to go to drug tx as I was out of control she promised i could coe back after, and we would talk on the phone once a week during this seperation (28 days). I also became an honest and hardworking member of NA.
2007-01-02
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