My family lives overseas and I live with my husband in a one bedroom, really small apartment in NYC. My parents like to visit but they do not ask me if it is ok or not and sometimes that is difficult for me, but in the past has somehow work out. Any way, the issue is that my parents want to visit me next April, I said let's
see what happens. Now, I am pregnant, due in April, and my husband and I are moving out at the end of June. I need to help him moving and we need to disoccupy our attic before I get too big. Therefore, my apartment will be a mess, the living room (where my parents sleep in a futon when they have visited us) will be full of boxes. Plus: the newborn will need space, and my time. My parents are sensitive and authoritarians, but I need to be comfortable with all the new changes of being a new mom plus moving. I dont want this situation to create problems with my husband,he is not as patient as I am. I want to avoid a family quarrel. They can visit after we move out
2006-11-20
02:35:11
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