My husband and I had a mutual friend when my daughter was younger, he was around until she was about a year. We have severed all contact with this person because he betrayed our trust. We have photos of him holding our daughter in her albums. She will most likely never see this person again, and it makes me sad to see the pictures. Should I remove them from her albums, and if so what should I do with them?
2006-11-19 15:55:36 · 12 answers · asked by katherinernilson 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Other - Pregnancy & Parenting
Sorry to hear that you are in this situation to begin with. I know its not fun.
I removed pictures of my ex-husband (daughter's biological father) out of my daughter's photo album because he will most likely never see her again because HE cut the ties. I didn't throw them out, but I did remove them from the book. I didn't throw them out because he was important at one point and she may have questions later.
For your case, I think you should take them out, but keep them. He was important enought at one time to take pictures of and who knows if he will come back. Keep them for the good memories but just put them away.
Hope that helps.
2006-11-19 16:13:00 · answer #1 · answered by nikki_butterfly777 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Good question. It really all comes down to why you feel sad when you see them. Sad because you lost a good friend to betrayal or sad because you can never forget how he made you feel when you found out he betrayed you? Build a bridge and either accept that, that person was apart of a good thing at that time and it is now over, or throw out the pictures if you really don't ever want to see his face again. Don't let the pass drag your future down. Good luck!
2006-11-19 16:11:09 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
If they make u sad maybe u should take them out but keep them somewhere else if u also don't want to explain to ur daughter someday who he was and why he's not around anymore.(however he betrayed u)
2006-11-19 16:16:57 · answer #3 · answered by same girl/new name :) 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
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2016-11-25 20:42:37 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No you should not remove them.As she gets older and questions you on who the person is holding her then you can explain that mutual friend of yours and her daddys and you and daddy are no longer friends with this man because adults could not act like adults and hold a friendship together.
2006-11-19 16:03:04 · answer #5 · answered by darlene100568 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋
That is completely up to you. If she will never know this person and your paths will never cross in the future I do not see any reason to keep the pictures...throw them out.
2006-11-19 15:58:05 · answer #6 · answered by **KELLEY** 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I'd remove them because i would'nt want to look at someone who betrayed me and still keep there photo.
2006-11-19 16:03:16 · answer #7 · answered by bambamcricketball 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
no leave them in there some day you may have a change of heart and those are good memories and thats what photos are for for memories so leave them alone and as yrs go by youll see why
2006-11-19 16:01:24 · answer #8 · answered by alysiac78 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I would remove them especially if they upset you to see them. But put them away in a box in your attic just in case...you never know...
2006-11-19 16:09:11 · answer #9 · answered by UGG 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I would just toss them, if you are like me you have pleanty of photos of your beautifull baby, & don't need anything that will make you feel down.
2006-11-19 15:57:47 · answer #10 · answered by notAminiVANmama 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋