A very close friend of mine is single, has no children, and is in her early 40's, and has no plans on having children. She won't hold a baby till they are 6 months old, shes been that way since forever, and I totally respect her decision. She loves children, and is great with them but has told me that since she wasn't able to have children, it bothers her to hold young babies. My other friends think she is weird and always make comments about it when shes around. When she leaves I tell them to keep their comments to themselves, and when shes is around and hears them she takes care of herself and gives her thoughts on what was said. It bothers me though cause my other friends are so rude. She doesn't care but I think deep down it bothers her. How can I deal with this, we are all friends, so its not like I can keep them apart, but when I have the baby around, thats when they say ignorant things to her, and well my baby is my baby and she comes with me everywhere.
2007-02-17
10:00:29
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Proud Mother
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