Adolescent - February 2007

The girl am to marry she has hard head kids.I try to be nice but her kids are very disrespect. They talk back to there mom, if the girl who is 15 don't get her way she tell her mom she going to call the cops on her, she calls her mom a ho when she mad, she won't clean her room, she told me to shut up f you in so on. The son he is 9 he ok but he talks back too tells his mom I hate you and the oldest when told to do something he always says later. It takes him 4hours or more to do something, because he can't do it right now because he watching something or playing a game. Her dauther is the worse one. She has told me off lot's of times. There out of control. I can't do nothing am not there father. I was going to leave 3 times already. I hold back because I love there mother. I get mad with her (the mom) becasue she don't really do nothing. She just talks to them in a clam voice. "Don't do that honey" like that really works. In she knows it don't. I think they need a old fashion speaking.

2007-02-06 11:01:09 · 10 answers · asked by Silver 1

I don't want to discuss whether it's "good" or "bad" for teenagers to become pregnant. I'm also not speaking of those women who actually try to become pregnant - I'm talking accidental pregnancies here. I'm amazed that in this age where contraception is actually handed out for free from certain clinics (In the U.S., at least), that I see so many teenagers who are pregnant. What's the deal? Why can't they simply take pills, use protection, etc.? Again, I really don't want to defame the character of teenage moms. My mother was a teenage mom, and she's one of the best people I know. I'm just genuinely curious. Are they simply careless?

2007-02-06 10:47:21 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

OK, so about 15 minutes ago I was getting ready to play with my 2 good friends, when these 3 jerks I know pulled up on to my friends lawn where we met. One started throwing sticks at me for no reason and one chased me with their bike. As I was walking home I threw a stick at the group and one of them said that if I had hit them he would've hit me back. I went home because of a cut on my head I got from a stick. What should I do? By the way, I am 13 and 2 of these jerks are 12 and one is 13. I would like parent and kid opinions.

2007-02-06 10:39:45 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

My daughter is 14 years old ,and my wife thinks that i she shouldent be playing poker with me and the guys we play poker once a week ,you see my wife doesn't like our poker games because we swear ,talk about women ,drink ,play for money and fight during the poker game ,i remember one time i stabbed my friends hand on the table with my switchblade because he was cheating ,my wife thinks that this behavior is inapropriote for my daughter ,but i think its ok since they see all kind of things like that in school and that it is normal for a teenager to be exposed to it ,but my wife woulden't listen :( ,she also says that my friends are a bad influence on her because one of them is a convicted rapist ,but he didn't do anything to her ,but one time he did say she was sexy then i broke his nose ,but since i broke his nose i think he understand that if he come near my daughter he will be killed ,and another one of my friends is a drunk and my wife thinks this is also a bad influence

2007-02-06 10:37:35 · 9 answers · asked by SadDad07 1

ok so im 17 and my bf is 19, hes really controlling, we have been together for 5 years, he cheated on me 3 years ago and now he has a 2 year old son who has been living with us since he was 3 months ((his mother left him at our house and never came bac 4 him)) well i have raised his son as if he is my child, but he doesnt take care of his own kid, well now im pg by him. hes physically abusive and he is verbaly abusive. well if i leave him im afraid if i leave i cant take angel with me (( angel is his son )) im not allowed to leave the house unless im going to class (college courses, i graduated highschool last year) and he always tells his friends wat i look like naked and its really humiliating he tells me im fat (im not im 5'5 and im 132lbs) but im scared that he will hurt me now cuz im pg, he wanted me pg tho, i havent told him and im really scared im gonna get hurt even worse, and if i left could i get custody of angel, he thinks im his mommy?

2007-02-06 10:21:57 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-02-06 10:21:05 · 18 answers · asked by Emily 3

Should I tell her parents or keep it to myself?

2007-02-06 08:24:15 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

By the way. Im 17 Years Old. She doesnt want me to get it because she doesnt want my family talking about me. in a bad way.

2007-02-06 07:47:47 · 26 answers · asked by de 1

How can you make a relationship and make sparks in the relationship. my boyfriend and I have been together for two months and the sparks have been fading. I love him and I dont want to loose him so how can I put sparks in the relationship.

2007-02-06 07:32:34 · 7 answers · asked by IloveDr.Will K 1

Example like watching you closely and watching what you may do in yor time not around them also when you go some where and he rather you stay in the car and not be seen by another dude.

2007-02-06 07:08:27 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

for girls only

2007-02-06 06:38:53 · 11 answers · asked by kitty 1

This really big guy, that is obviously eating brick sized food, is staying with my family and he has taken a major s***. the toilet is really backed up, and flushing wont work. the plunger doesnt work; or well, it works, but it is not working. the problem is getting out of control.,...the water got higher when we tried to flush. its looks like a SCRAY BOWL OF MUD. what can i do.

2007-02-06 06:34:03 · 16 answers · asked by B.Billups 2

ok so i have known this girl koi since we were in 1st grade and she is my gf, we have been thru so much 2gether and i really love her. shes 14 and im 15. we live 2gether((read my old question and questions from her u will see wat we have been thru, her name is koi)) with her grandparents and little brother. if we did get married we would beable to pay for every thing.she was pg but the baby died and we have alot of money saved for when we thought we were having a baby. we r moving to michigan from arizona in a rew months, and her little bro would be comming with us((she raised him, hes 3)) but i really wanna be with her for the rest of my life, and i no she feels the same about me. i no we r young but we really love each other. should i ask her?

2007-02-06 06:16:11 · 36 answers · asked by TyreL 1

i'm 16 year old going on 17 pretty soon me and my b/f was not
planning on having a child and i think i'm pregnant and what should i do and should i get rid of it

2007-02-06 06:08:57 · 20 answers · asked by lilnikki_momma15@yahoo.com 1

i'm 16 year old going on 17 pretty soon me and my b/f was not
planning on having a child and i think i'm pregnant and what should i do and should i get rid of it

2007-02-06 06:08:57 · 5 answers · asked by lilnikki_momma15@yahoo.com 1

Im 16 3/4 soon to be 17. pregnant can i moved out and get married to my bf that is 18 3/4 soon to be 19? Just wondering if I can do that.

Also I can I do food pantry because im pregnant or ill have to be 18 for it? I live in Mass.

2007-02-06 05:59:41 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

Her father doesn't really say much to her about it. I went on her page today and she says that she needs a boyfriend fast on her heading! I was a bit shocked and couldn't believe it! She is 10 years old, has an attitude, doesn't listen and does what she wants. She is being interviewed for various schools that offer advance education because she is academically smart and advanced in my subjects. She gets bad progress reports over and over again for not respecting her elders or other students because she doesn't stop talking in class. I am concerned because MySpace is full of predators and many kids will make the mistake of meeting sick people online. I don't know if I should mention this to her parents.

2007-02-06 05:46:16 · 36 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am a teacher of my 13 year old step daughter and she is always causing problems for me, been back talking me, and she keeps getting bad grades and i have tried punishing her and her father has to we are think about starting to spank her. Her father is also a teacher at this same school. Any ideas

2007-02-06 05:40:06 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

My 11yr old girl has really developed. I have been trying for a year to get her to even speak to me about wearing a bra.

I have tried sports bras, plain bras, soft cup bras, cami's. I have tried leaving her alone and tried having her aunt and cousin talk to her.

I even offered her a day off from school to go shopping and have a "special" mom/daughter day. She said it was not worth it.

I even asked her step mom that is (25yrs) to talk to her and her father to help. No dice.

I leave for work early and her stepfather takes her to school. We are both not comfortable with him forcing her to wear one. I must of have bought a dozen different bras for her to try on and they just sit in her drawer.

I have even offered to take her and get her fitted. The last time she screammed and turned so red. The sales lady in JC Penny's came to check on us. It was very embrassing!

Please help ~ her biggest complaint they are uncomfortable. Any Tomboys HELP!

2007-02-06 05:25:55 · 26 answers · asked by ellabella0110 1

when guyz watch teen movies there thingy grows up...but what happens to girls...what do you girls do and how do you feel....
whatt happens

2007-02-06 04:57:23 · 7 answers · asked by hot_kissmwa 1

Ok so here’s the thing. I am known to be very intelligent for my age, I don’t mean good at math, science this, I mean when it comes to street smarts and life. At least that’s what some people say. I speak my mind a lot, and I don’t give in to peer pressure. I don’t have time to flirt with boys, and I don’ t like wearing pink and acting all fake and perky like most of the girls at my school. I thought that would make me cool, but for some reason I don’t have any friends at all. NO boys seems to be interested in me, and people always tease me. Do I really have to change myself to be cool? Or is it just me? And sometimes I can be very naive.

My grandmother says I should just act like a kid, yeah I know this, but still....

2007-02-06 04:53:41 · 22 answers · asked by Echo♠ 3

yesterday night my bf told me that his stepdad stole his money and his moms car to go to cali but my bf is in pa and he's coming this summer to see me but he's only 17 and still in high school and he wants to get 2 jobs to help his mom but i feel bad because i dont know what to say about it and i told him i want to help but i dont know how so i'm asking you guys what you would tell him?

2007-02-06 04:52:27 · 3 answers · asked by crystal 1

My friend's son, 15 years old, has a very hard time staying focused on anything. It takes him two hours, literally, to do a few dishes. It takes him 3 hours to do 30 minutes worth of homework. He can take from the time he gets home from school until suppertime to eat a snack. Not doing anything else in the meantime. Just munchin' on the snack. He's easily distracted, but he's a brilliant child, all Advanced classes, etc. The advanced classes are totally his idea, but his parents have to stay after him to get his homework done so that he can go to bed. The teachers say that it is just his personality. Procrastination is not a good personality trait. Especially when he's looking to start working within the next year. He will get the job done quickly if he has something that he wants to do, or if he has a time limit. But always setting time limits gets humdrum to both him and his parents. And a boss isn't going to be that patient. What can his parents do?

2007-02-06 03:52:03 · 15 answers · asked by Angel L 3

i'm not really aloud to date till i'm 19 ...so bummer.i really like this guy.i never used to like him but i had this dream about him and now...he's like ...wow.he's not cute or smart or dreamy but i like him.i want to kiss him...

does he like me???
he chats to me on msn like every other day...
and once my display pic was you make me smile...and he asked if he reallly made me smile.i panicked and logged off. he always asks me if i like him,well sort of.

andhis friends ask me if i like him,once.

ooo forgot...he never speaks to me in public,well face to face...
the only time he ever spoke to me was like 3 months aga and all he said was hi.and it was almost a whisper.he did smile though.

my friends hate him and my parents hate him.


sooooooooooooooo
do you think he likes me???????
btw i'm 14 so i'd like teen advice more than adult advice.... and more boys to answer...

my Qs:

does he like me?
how can i tell?
should i kiss him????

i realllllllly want to...

2007-02-06 03:35:59 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

if you do, I wish you'd explain it to me because I don't get it.

I think my daughters bedroom is a total mess. She calls in organized chaos. As far as I'm concerned those 2 words dont' fit together. How can it be orgainzed and chaos too? Seems to me it has to be one or the other.

2007-02-06 02:46:16 · 8 answers · asked by Mrs J 6

AT WHAT AGE DID YOU MOVE IN WITH YOUR BOYFRIEND AFTER HAVING A BABY?? (TEENS)

2007-02-06 02:29:51 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

Every month or so I get a really big pimple on my nose and it's always on my nose. It has that white stuff on it when I pop and the water thing or whatever you call it. I'm really serious about getting this crap off my nose. I had about 6 of them on my nose and when they're gone they're just scars that sometimes turns red. They're twice or even thrice the size of normal pimples. Can someone help me out? I ordered Proactive and it's going to come here in about a week. But, I didn't want them to mail me refill every 2 months.

2007-02-06 02:26:06 · 6 answers · asked by J.A. 2

well i am going to marry a man that i have been arranged to marry. i dont love him, i cant stand him, and im expected to have children rite away but i dont want kids with a man i dont have any love for.im 16 rite now and i marry him a few days sfter my 18th b-day he will be 27 then. so0o0o could i get that doen without them noing if i pay for it while they are in india? i am expected to have children rite away and i dont want kids with him.. but if i dont marry him i will be shunned from my family(( they did that to my cousin puman/poonam)) and i love my family but i dont want to be tied to a man i dont love and my parents have made their minds on this matter. i have never been able to satnd adyata((the man i am going to marry,adi for short)) so can i get them tied? thanks

2007-02-06 02:24:35 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous

Hi i just want everyone to answer this that agrees with my statement:

teens now n days are never getting enough sleep,

should they really push the school starting points later?

2007-02-06 01:03:19 · 10 answers · asked by abby_borg 2

last week my gf had this M.P. which they called & tried to had sex at that time but didnt worked out first of all coz shes still a v irgin & im afraid to penetrate it coz i can see the blood coming out. when the time i push my p enis in she keeps on slaping me coz it realy hurts. (only the head was in at that time then i pulled it out). after a week was the big day coz atlast i managed to penetrate it inside (but ofcourse it will still hurt for her coz that was her first time) I tried not to *** because i know that she will get pregnant if i made it. so we stopped it. i was worried that will she get pregnant? i duno if i did a pre - c Um coz i stopped my excitement for me not to cU m inside. (which means that we had sex but i did not c um) Pls adivice.

2007-02-05 21:32:08 · 14 answers · asked by CLoud9 3