Example like watching you closely and watching what you may do in yor time not around them also when you go some where and he rather you stay in the car and not be seen by another dude.
2007-02-06 07:08:27 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
Sweetie, you do not get pregnant FOR a guy! Let's get that straight first off. Why do I get the idea you are probably too young to be a parent from the wording of your question?
This childman sounds like he has control issues. He has a few problems and is very insecure within himself as a man. Rightfully so when he acts like a selfish possessive child and curtails innocent freedoms. No man confident in himself acts in such a way that he feels threatened by another male for nothing.
Unless you are in the Kingdom of Saudi Arabia, where such possessiveness is the norm, your guy is just a baby. And that, my dear, is why I do not live with my husband in Arabia. HE trusts me, but the rest of his society does not and would not subject me to such foolishness. As a result, we meet and spend time in other countries or he comes to me for extended visits.
This guy of yours needs to grow up. In the meantime, you should just leave. It will NOT get better. As sure as birds fly, he will not stop, but his behaviour WILL accelerate over time. This, I promise you, will happen.
2007-02-06 07:56:09 · answer #1 · answered by Noor al Haqiqa 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hon, you don't get pregnant for him unless he is your husband.
If he is harassing or shaming you get to your phone book and look up a shelter for women battered or abused. They will hide you away from this creep and set up an adoption so you can get the baby in a decent family away from a father that will treat you like garbage. They will help you start over again. If you dont' do it now you will be stuck with him the rest of your born days. If you are a teenager call 1-800-448-3000 they will tell you what number to call don't wait do this now.
2007-02-06 15:15:03 · answer #2 · answered by Tapestry6 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wow...that's a huge control issue and if my man was to ever treat me that way i would bust he's lip! That's terrible, how could anyone be with someone like that? I think you need to have a talk with him asap because that's not a normal healthy relationship. I hope he never puts his hands on you! If he does you better tell your doctor, that's how many women have miscarriages.
2007-02-06 15:14:42 · answer #3 · answered by Curious J. 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
It's a control thing.. he thinks since you are having his kid that he can control you. You are going to have to stop it before you bring your child into your life and make the child go through it all! You're going to have to come to some kind of result or conclusion.
2007-02-06 17:36:18 · answer #4 · answered by jasmyn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why in the world would you get pregnant for a guy? Are you married, fiscally secure? How old are you anyway? You should not get pregnant for a guy ever. He's watching you because he's immature and doesn't trust you.
2007-02-06 15:15:23 · answer #5 · answered by musicpanther67 5 · 6⤊ 0⤋
That means that he is too immature to have a relationship let alone a baby. Trust is one of the basic building blocks of mature, true love. He is exhibiting childlike behaviors.
2007-02-06 15:13:01 · answer #6 · answered by Proud Mommy of 6 6 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Hes probably ashamed that he got you pregnant and don't want his friends to make fun of him, I would find someone else that won't treat you like that. and is proud to have you by their side, than hiding you. you deserve someone better, good luck. and when the baby is born make sure he pays child support for his child. good luck.
2007-02-06 15:58:06 · answer #7 · answered by misty blue 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds pretty controling but he could just be worried about you dont know him so I cant really judge is he abusive physically or emotionally or sexually even if hes not you need to get yourself out and get some help plz!
2007-02-06 17:43:13 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you got pregnant for a guy? lol see you in child support court
2007-02-06 17:10:25 · answer #9 · answered by mercedesofladies34 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he sounds controlling. It is still your body and your life. Him getting you preg. does not mean that he has control over you
2007-02-06 15:15:02 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋