Should I tell her parents or keep it to myself?
2007-02-06 08:24:15 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
why do you think shes pregnant? and talk to her about it before you go to her mom.
2007-02-06 08:31:05 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Talk to her parents. Friendship is important but safety is more important. It is a difficult decision to make but just think, if she is pregnant then you have done the right thing. Tell your friend ahead of time you are going to talk to her parents so that you won't be betraying her, but be prepared for her to get upset. Even if she is not pregnant and she is having sex at such a young age it can still be benificial to talk with her parents. She is too young to be engaging in this behavior!
2007-02-06 09:02:42 · answer #2 · answered by RedPower Woman 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OMG 13 years old is way to young to be pregnant.
I would for sure talk to her and let her know that she seriously needs to let her parents know she is pregnant. She needs to go to the doctor make sure she is healthy along with the baby and keep up to date on maternity visits along with all the information and needs she will need with the pregnancy and after the baby is born.
If her parents care anything about her, they will be frustrated and mad at first but they will be there to defend, stand behind her and support her through this.
2007-02-10 07:18:38 · answer #3 · answered by msheatherd28 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you're in a tough issue. Your chum is in an excellent harder issue and it relatively is significant the she realizes that it is not going to easily bypass away. I became a mom as a teenager and it became into relatively the toughest ingredient i've got ever completed. My parents additionally did no longer react the way i assumed they might, they did no longer kick me out or banish me. on your persons sake, you may desire to talk to an grownup which you have faith. Your chum depended on you together with her secret meaning that she trusts your judgement, she trusts you to do what's the superb option. Has she taken a being pregnant attempt? If no longer, do this first, you should purchase them on the community drug keep. If she is pregnant, the superb ingredient which you're able to do for her the superb option now's to get help from an grownup which you have faith and not from the maths instructor. in case you may no longer bypass to somebody on your loved ones or hers, bypass on your community teenager wellbeing health center or call a helpline or heat line and ask them for suggestion. Please do no longer in basic terms watch for this to "bypass away" simply by fact if she is pregnant, the longer you wait the harder it will be to handle all of it. If it seems she's no longer pregnant, she nonetheless needs to get help simply by fact a 28 365 days previous instructor should not be having intercourse together with his 13 365 days previous pupil regardless of the placement or how mature she is. wish all is going nicely for you and she or he.
2016-10-01 12:59:10 · answer #4 · answered by dorais 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont go to her parents unless your sure shes pregnant! talk to her tell her your only saying this because you care for her! I am 14 and thats what i thought my friend was DOING! I talked to her and she thanked me for telling her what was bothering me!
what ever may happen you will no you did the right thing!
2007-02-06 09:48:58 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if your frien not listening to the advice you giving, i wouldnt charge straight in and tell her parents, maybe chat to your school counsellor or a phone help line first, if your friend is sleeping around pregnancy is not her only concern and her ongoing health could be at risk, see what advice u get then maybe talk to your mum about it, and she can approach your friends parents. good on you for being a good friend!
2007-02-09 20:57:43 · answer #6 · answered by sydneygal 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to her for sure if she is messed up enough to be pregnant at 13 she needs you to get some help for her she might be to scared to get some help herself
2007-02-06 09:49:06 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would talk to your friend. also the young man she is sleeping with. if he is over 18 he is going to get into big trouble. he will be throwing his life down the tubes. if she continues, tell your mother. she will handle it in an adult way.
2007-02-06 09:47:32 · answer #8 · answered by jacqueline j 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course I'd tell the parents. If you lose a friendship over it then so be it, it wasnt worth it was it. She might thanks you in years to come.
2007-02-06 12:03:35 · answer #9 · answered by Calais 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
uhh... tell her parents. They might not know this and 13 is way too young.
2007-02-06 08:37:15 · answer #10 · answered by momof3 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i would talk to her parents. you really should give them a heads up. this way they can step in and get her the help she needs. hope this helps. good luck
2007-02-07 16:14:20 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋