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i'm 16 year old going on 17 pretty soon me and my b/f was not
planning on having a child and i think i'm pregnant and what should i do and should i get rid of it

2007-02-06 06:08:57 · 5 answers · asked by lilnikki_momma15@yahoo.com 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting Adolescent

5 answers

talk to your parents and your boyfriend and plan on adoption. Do what's best for the baby - that's right BABY. It's a human being, not a piece of garbage to be sucked down a sink.

Keep your pants on until you are ready to be a mother.

2007-02-06 06:50:30 · answer #1 · answered by Dizney 5 · 0 0

I would have to say either keep or put the baby up for adoption. Over 50,000 babies were adopted this way last year.
Here are some of the reasons you shouln't do it for your own sake:
Abortion may increase the risk of Breast Cancer
Medical experts are still researching and debating the linkage between abortion and breast cancer. However, a 1994 study in the Journal of the National Cancer Institute found: "Among women who had been pregnant at least once, the risk of breast cancer in those who had experienced an induced abortion was 50% higher than among other women."

Heavy Bleeding - Some bleeding after abortion is normal. However, there is a risk of hemorrhage, especially if the uterine artery is torn. When this happens, a blood transfusion may be required.
Infection - There is a risk that bacteria may get into the uterus from an incomplete abortion resulting in infection. A serious infection may lead to persistent fever over several days and extended hospitalization.
Incomplete Abortion - There is a risk that some fetal parts may not be removed by the abortion. Bleeding and infection may occur. RU486 may fail in up to 1 out of every 20 cases.
Allergic Reaction to Drugs - There is a risk of an allergic reaction to the anesthesia used during abortion surgery. These risks include convulsions, heart attack and, in extreme cases, death.
Tearing of the Cervix - There is a risk that the cervix may be cut or torn by abortion instruments.
Scarring of the Uterine Lining - There is a risk that suction tubing, curettes, and other abortion instruments may cause permanent scarring of the uterine lining.
Perforation of the Uterus - There is a risk that the uterus may be punctured or torn by abortion instruments. The risk of this complication increases with the length of the pregnancy. If this occurs, major surgery, including a hysterectomy, may be required.
Damage to Internal Organs - When the uterus is punctured or torn, there is also a risk that damage will occur to nearby organs such as the bowel and bladder.
Death - In extreme cases, there is a risk of other physical complications from abortion including excessive bleeding, infection, organ damage from a perforated uterus, and adverse reactions to anesthesia may lead to death. This complication is very rare and occurs, on average, in less than 20 cases per year.
The baby will also recieve extreme pain.
I will be praying for you!

2007-02-10 09:04:24 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Hey i think if your boyfriend wasent ready to have a kid he wasent ready for SEX. in my opinion as a guy. If You think your having a baby to me i say you shold go through the pregenacy and decide if you want to keep or put the baby for adoption . And Abortion is killing a livivng thing and that Can be called murder .so this is my opinion .

2007-02-06 23:46:28 · answer #3 · answered by jonjon1982 1 · 0 0

tell your boyfriend, go to a womens health or sexual health or family planning clinic, get all the info and then make your choice, u might try getting info on birth control while u there so it doesnt happen again

2007-02-10 04:53:51 · answer #4 · answered by sydneygal 6 · 0 0

its up to you whether to keep the baby or not i would talk with your boyfriend and parents and ask them for their opinions and if you dont want to keep the baby you can have an abortion or put the baby up for adoption but utlimately it is up to you

2007-02-06 14:13:59 · answer #5 · answered by Me 2 · 0 0

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