Adolescent - February 2007

i dont know what to do! i found a bag with 2 oxycodone in it and she said that someone from school gave it to her. I know about drug rehab and condisering getting her help, but this is the first time and i need some advice with someone who has been through this. I need support bad. Oh yeah, she is in 8th grade.

2007-02-07 09:29:25 · 16 answers · asked by Alana B 1

im 12 years old i started my periods about 10 months ago but lately when im not on i get brown discharge is this normal?

2007-02-07 09:14:38 · 12 answers · asked by ..x..blue.eyed.princess..x.. 1

ok its been about 1 week and like 3 days since i gave it up. and a week after words i bleed. i think it is my period. i hope so anyway. but i have worked my self up to thinking im pregnant. i am 13 years old!!!!!!!!!!!! and i cant go to an for help and i cant drive myself to planned parenthood. idk how am i supposed to find out if i am or not. i am so nervous i even feel fat. but i dont want to hear ohh im to young to be doing that anyway, if ur a parent with a teens theres a chance they have done what i did. so dont be rude. me and my boyfriend used condms everytime. four times in one night and that was my first time. but if this beeding is my period im not pregnant right?

2007-02-07 09:12:38 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

Girls in my grade are terrible to me. Im in the tenth grade. I generally keep to my self and talk to my friends. Im pretty nice to people but some girls are out to get me. Im not really popular in my grade or that pretty. I'm 5'4 120 pounds and get harassed because of my breast size. Im a 38 D. People say they are fake and say I have eating disorders. This one girl Kasie is truly a b*tch. She calls me ugly ( shes not a looker herself), trys to put me down, makes up lies about me, insults other people, brags about how people want to sleep with her ( shes kinda easy), and will brag about material things. Im so sick of her. she trys and kicks me in the face during gym. I really hate her and she talks to me about her life problems and thinks she can be a ***** to me. Shes trying to steal my friends boyfriend. This other girl Kym hates me for no reason and will wave and say hi to me. I waved back to be polite, and she started cracking up. I hate them. What should I do?

2007-02-07 09:01:28 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

Ok not nec having sex but having boyfriends etc.


ie instead of going ewwu parents don't do that...


Why arent' teen kids happy when parents are playfully affectionate and making out and obviously still doing it.


So it means they wont divorce and love each other.


Whilst thinking if they dont they dont love each other and will divorce.


Likewise instead of some silly notion of protecting sisters...

Why aren't brothers trying to set up their sis with mates to help her get boyfriends so not all upset that nobody wants her and her thinking she is ugly and hurting herself or contemplating suicide if the annorexia does not make her thin enough to get a boyfriend


Likewise parents panicaing over the same thing... wanting very much sis all happy and sparkly and rushing to the phone every time it goes off all happy and huggy with a bf.


Likewise why arnt parents worried that if son does not get a boyfriend he will never find love and only be able to shag hoooker

2007-02-07 08:12:02 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

When i come over to my friends house she lies to her mom about it andi hate lieing to her mom as well

2007-02-07 07:57:55 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

Last night while watching American Idol my husband asked my
daughter to get him a beer. Now mind you Lisa is always a well
behaved, well mannered 11 year old. So this really shocked us,
when she said "No, get it yourself, I'm watching tv".

Without saying a word my husband got up, put Lisa across his knee and spanked her and sent her to her room and said no tv for the rest of the week.

Granted Lisa needed discipline, but to get a spanking in front of the
whole family I felt was uncalled for. I think he owes her an apology
for spanking her like that.

Am I justified for being angry?

2007-02-07 07:43:21 · 36 answers · asked by Anonymous

My lil bro, (he just turned 17), found out that he was going to be having a baby! His girlfriend is very immature (just turned 18). She is very dependant on others, does drugs, & flirts with other guys. Im afraid that she is going to ruin her baby's life, when the baby is born. Im real angry @ the fact that they ARE having a baby. I mean, he is only 17. He still needs to go to college and grow up more. Im real scared for them. Please, if anyone has any feedback let me know. Thanx~

2007-02-07 07:39:27 · 14 answers · asked by godsdiamond 1

Misery loves company,right?!
I have 4 children...3 boys,ages 7,12,and 13;and a girl,age 16.SHE is going to kill me,I think,with all the stress she creates.
:*(

2007-02-07 07:32:04 · 10 answers · asked by MaryBeth 7

2007-02-07 07:25:45 · 26 answers · asked by Halo Mom 7

My dad past away when i was 4. i have no one

2007-02-07 05:42:45 · 35 answers · asked by mutt 1

Hair style, clothes, and makeup.

I'm african/italian so I'm light brown and my hair is black with dark brown (natural) lowlights. Naturally, it's in really tight curls. I usually flat iron it. Oh, and it's layered and shoulder length. I also have bangs, I'm growing them out, though (they're already past my eyes)
I'm tall (5'8").
I have black rimmed glasses which I AM NOT GETTING RID OF. PERIOD. NOT CONTACT LENSES.

I have no idea what I want to do with my look so ideas and suggestions would be nice.


Looking at serious answers only.

2007-02-07 04:58:41 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

Normally, I am fairly strict and she is not allowed to actually date until she is 16. She's allowed to go on group outings if there is a parent present, but that is it. The thing is, I am 100% sure I have breast cancer that has spread to the bone. I have a doctor's appointment on the 20th to find out for sure. But I'm a nurse and as much as I tried to ignore all the signs, I'm sure that's what they will tell me.

So, I'm now wondering if maybe I should let her go - just to the prom and home, no parties afterward. The boy who asked her isn't someone she would ever date and she has told him that if she can go, she wouldn't ditch him or anything, but for him not to think it's anything more than friends. It's a really small school, so they will be well-supervised at the prom. Under any other circumstances, I wouldn't let her go. But what if this is the only prom I'll get to be around for? That really scares me.

2007-02-07 04:47:30 · 22 answers · asked by Someday Soon 2

My daugter who is 15. She is so out of contol. Am talking crazy out of control. She is reckless. She dirty's up the hole house, bathroom the outside, screens, her room is so out of control again. A few month's ago I got in there on a week-end. And I threw away you know those heavey duty glad trash bags the big ones I thew 11 of them away fill to the top of nothing but trash, old food, broken dishes etc..And her month she starting to swear so bad it's embrassing, she will tell me to shut up, F you, go away, you don't tell me what to do, in when am telling her something she laughs in my face, she says: ok mom, I don't know why your telling me, am not going to do it, she rolling her eyes. And at school she failing almost every class. I got her torting, I got her in a Saturday boot camp, but she will not go to either one of them. All she cares about how pretty she looks. I can't afford some kind of girls home or a real boot camp. Does anyone out there no somewhere or something I could do?

2007-02-07 04:33:53 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

ok so i was a week late on my period and then i started having light pink when i would wipe and a couple spots over a period of like 5 or 6 hours... then i today as i was walking around i started spotting more of a red and just a little bit more than before but it still goes away and returns... not like my normal very heavy period... i thought i was pregnant but i'm not sure now? any advice! help please!

2007-02-07 03:36:56 · 5 answers · asked by Jessica 1

My mam is realy religous and doesnt believe in children before marage or before 21.How can i tell her im pregnant withsome randomer????????????

2007-02-07 03:29:50 · 41 answers · asked by miriam c 1

My daughter asked if her friend could come to church with us. I told my daughter to have Lucy’s parents call me. I wanted to make sure I explain that we are Baptist and I wanted to make sure it was ok with them. Well my daughter came back and told me her step-dad doesn’t believe in God nor does he believe in organized religion. However Lucy could attend Church with us, however they will have nothing to do with it. Basically, every Sunday Lucy would spend the night Saturday or I would pick her up Sunday. A few months later, I moved across town and picking Lucy up isn’t easy for me. So I asked if someone could drop her off at my home Sunday morning. Lucy told me her dad said he will not have anything to do with Church. So I asked about her mother. She then confessed that before her mother got remarried they would go to Church all the time. Then they stopped when her step-dad came along. I am wondering if I am doing the right thing.Especially if her family doesn’t believe in God.

2007-02-07 03:29:00 · 18 answers · asked by Renee 3

My dad is finally on my side but I have this nagging feeling that my ex won't be after what happened three weeks ago, I haven't talked to him in two and a half, my dad yelled at him saying how could he get a girl into trouble and not help out, he has been helping out quite abit and I tried to correct him but he wouldn't listen. While I'm at it isn't it illegal to "kick out" a student just because she's pregnant? I know the sex of the baby it's a boy, which one would be good James Alen or Alex?

2007-02-07 03:05:23 · 7 answers · asked by sweet heart 2

my boyfriend and i moved in together 3 mo. ago and no on lived with us except my 15 year old daughter. he has 3 children,17,14,13 that live with their mother. just recently the mother and the oldest child got into some trouble with the law and he needed to take the two youngest children in with us. i explained to him in the beginning of our relationship that i didn't want to live in a house full of kids, that i have a certain way that i like my living situation to be. he stated that he understood and that it would never come to him having to take in his kids. i explained to him that if he knew eventually one day he would want to get his kids, that our living situation would have to change. now her i am ,living in a house with all these people and it's really driving me nuts. what should i do?

2007-02-07 02:44:35 · 31 answers · asked by blaquequeen71 2

I'm a mom of 2 boys (13 & 8) and a long time boyfriend. I don't feel I'm being respected, and I'm sick of saying the same thing over and over again. I do work full time and everyday I pick up everyone else stuff (even though repeatedly asking them to pick up their own stuff) Any moms out there done this and if so has it worked?

2007-02-07 01:32:43 · 13 answers · asked by frogs525 1

ok we've been talking for about 3 months then we finally dated we broke it off because thingsgot out of contol.. its been about 2 wks since we broke up and we both still like each other...the only problem is he has a girlfriend...which i hear is another girl pretending to be another girl by digusing her voice to be that girl... what do i do?

2007-02-07 00:27:28 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

My 14 year old daughter brought this boy she is dating to meet me ,so i invited him to play poker with me and my friends ,we pretty much scared him off and now my daughter says its my fault ,but i think that it isn't my fault ,here is exactly what was said :

Me : sit down boy
Boy : ok sir
Me : so you want to marry my daughter right ??
Boy : what !?!!?
Me : lol
Boy : very funny sir
slinky : hey you got a sister ??
Boy : yes
Slinky : how old is she
Boy : 16 ,why ??
Slinky : where does she live ??
Me : don't tell him he is a ******' convicted rapist
Boy : what !?!?! your sick
Pablo : hey amigo don't insult slinky *****
Me : yeah goddamn it you **** don't be insulting slinky
Boy : i'm sorry jessica but i don't want to see you anymore you dad's scaring me
*boy leaves*
jessica : daddy i really liked him
Me : blame slinky
*jessica punches slinky in the face*
Me :lol
*jessica goes to her room angry*

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does it really seem like it is my fault ??

2007-02-07 00:07:30 · 15 answers · asked by SadDad07 1

im 17 in a stable relationship and living with my bf in our own house and we are engaged the thing is i want to start a family is this normal for me to feel like this?

2007-02-06 23:39:05 · 9 answers · asked by mummy to 3 miracles 5

as soon as the bell rang 4 us 2 go t out peroid 2 classes . as soon as i went out of the portable i slipped on slush!!! with every 1 laughing at me and then as soon as i got up i slipped again!!! and again every1 was laughing at me and if u ont belive wat happend.. i slipped AGAIN!!! and again pple 4 laughting at me.. but luckly i didnt fell again but now im to emarresd 2 go to school or even look at my crush... wat should i do?

2007-02-06 22:35:57 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

According to a 14 year old boy....his life is so boring. He said that all he does everyday is to study. What can he do to make his life more meaningful?

2007-02-06 21:02:14 · 13 answers · asked by ReFlEcTi0Ns 1

I'm 17. My friends are all into drinking every single weekend, smoking pot, having sex with random guys, smoke and wagging.

I'm against this. Although I don't mind drinking.

When I first started being friends with these girls, we were 13. We did drink a little (for someone birthday and was supervised and etc). Everyone cared about doing well at school and having morals and having a good reputation.

Now they couldn't care less. I want my friends to care about themselves, because I care about them. This year (my last year of high school) I am going to a different school.

Now they are leaving me out of the things they do because I am against what they do.

I cant just pretend i'm ok with it, but i don't want to lose my friends...


What do you think I should do?!

2007-02-06 20:53:37 · 16 answers · asked by ★☆✿❀ 7

Is it possible that a man who has to small a penis will not be able to 'pop a woman's cherry?' Or rather, break the hymen?
Furthermore, is it possible for you to not be able to please a woman through intercourse due to size restrictions?

2007-02-06 19:06:33 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

my email address is anmc1989@yahoo.com

2007-02-06 18:22:45 · 10 answers · asked by LotsaQs 1

2007-02-06 18:21:01 · 18 answers · asked by LotsaQs 1

I was on my friends bed. he is 14 and im 17...i was lying there talking to him and suddenly my father entered the room.....

if it was u what will u do as a parent??

2007-02-06 17:49:55 · 23 answers · asked by LotsaQs 1