Why wont they leave me alone ever?

Question

Girls in my grade are terrible to me. Im in the tenth grade. I generally keep to my self and talk to my friends. Im pretty nice to people but some girls are out to get me. Im not really popular in my grade or that pretty. I'm 5'4 120 pounds and get harassed because of my breast size. Im a 38 D. People say they are fake and say I have eating disorders. This one girl Kasie is truly a b*tch. She calls me ugly ( shes not a looker herself), trys to put me down, makes up lies about me, insults other people, brags about how people want to sleep with her ( shes kinda easy), and will brag about material things. Im so sick of her. she trys and kicks me in the face during gym. I really hate her and she talks to me about her life problems and thinks she can be a ***** to me. Shes trying to steal my friends boyfriend. This other girl Kym hates me for no reason and will wave and say hi to me. I waved back to be polite, and she started cracking up. I hate them. What should I do?

Answer 1

sound like my school experience, except every one was mean cuz im native american, well continue to be nice 2dem, listen 2 her problems, maybe u can get some dirt, dont wave just give them a look that says "talk to me again and se if u have a tounge" and if they ever try to kick u grab her foot and throw her, and then say "pic which food u wanna keep" i hate it when people pic on other people for no reasen,aghhhh, it makes me soo mad, just u be da better person, but if day put their hands on u, dont take it, i wiah i kicked those peoples asses when i had the chance, just dont let dem get 2 u, and they are jelous cuz they have boobs that can only be seen under a microscope.lol. dont let them get 2 u, cuz then they no they r winning and will only want 2 hurt u more. i hope things work out, and if u need anymore help, u can e-mail me [e-mail] !!!
also maybe u could have some one go 2 a counselor at yur skoll sayin that those girls are mean 2 u and when they ask if u told da skool, u honestly can say "no i didnt"
dont hate tho, cuz in the ong run u r only gonna make yur self madder and they dont care if u hate dem,day already no u do. and if yur friends are really yur friends day will stik up 4 u and wont fall into their little tricks, will day? if u see her commin 2 kik u, beat her 2da punch!! u dont go 2 skool 2 b abused by deese girls, u go to learn and be safe, talk 2da principle or a teacher, just dont let dem mistreat u like dis!!! take care and e-mail me if u wanna tak more, i hope things work out for you.

Answer 2

I'm so sorry this is happening to you. I went through a similar situation a few years ago. The only thing I can tell you, is don't do what I did. I tried to ignore the problem. Figured it would go away. It really didn't. Things got worse and worse, until I eventually had to leave the school I was going to. I'm home schooled now. My best advice would be to stand up for yourself. Show these girls that you're not going to take any of their crap. And remember that it really doesn't matter what girls like that think of you.

You've probably heard a dozen times or more that the real reason behind most bullying is insecurity on the part of the bully. From what I've seen, this is generally true. They're trying to make themselves feel better by putting you down. Don't let them do that to you because, if you do, chances are they won't stop, and the longer you let them get away with it, the harder it will be to make it stop.


Good luck to you. I hope everything works out well. =)

Answer 3

Teenage life is very difficult. They are often cruel to one another for many unknown reasons.

Maybe they are jealous, it is nice to have something on your chest rather than nothing. She/they may feel self consious about what they have. There are some people in this world who feel that if they are miserable everyone around them has to be miserable too and that no one deserves to be happy. Be glad that you are blessed. If it bothers you, you can always exercise and work on toning for your upper torso.

Bullies usually just tease, hurt, annoy and mess with others because they have low self esteem or are just unsure of themselves. I will tell you to ignore it, but I know it is very hard. You can try and talk to her and see where that goes.

People who bother and mess with you usually look for a reaction. If you just ignore them and make it so they don't really exist to you and what they try and do doesn't bother you then it is likely they will stop bothering you.

You can also refer to an adult or teacher. Usually abuse/assult ( the gym thing) that is intentional will get a person an office referral, so I think you should tell your coach/teacher and get them to do something.

They may be really depressed or are just looking for attention. If you think you could try and become friends with them that may also help. She may just be looking for some one to hear her out. It could be a way for her to express herself even though it is not right. I know for a fact that there are times when people just want others to listen to them and only listen. Not give advice or try and fix anything, just listen. Confront her and ask her why she is bugging you ask her if there was something you did to upset her. You will be fine as long as you make an effort.

Answer 4

All I can say is been there. I'm in ninth grade and i'm really tall and skinny. I got picked on by girls in my grade, but after a while, they left me alone, but there's still this one girl who I hate so much. I'm like you- never mean to her, but she's always got something to say about me, unless she wants to cheat off my paper in spanish. Now let me calm down before I get too mad. Now, i've never been in a fight before but I'm pretty sure i could beat her skinny tail, AND snatch all her track out. BUT, a lot of the other cosmo (cosmetology ( i go to a magnet school)) girls are cool with her, and i don't have a problem wit them, but at the same time, if I were to fight her, half the school would be against me. It's complicated. I just try to stay with my friends. I know it's hard but try not to let it get to you. Sometimes I get so mad and then I want to cry but I don't want to give her that satisfaction. DON'T, however, go running your mouth to the wrong people. That will only cause trouble. E-mail me if you wanna talk. Adios

Answer 5

You are better then they are.... stay strong.
High school is almost over, and trust me... life is completely different after high school.
Isn't it funny that the girls with small boobs want them bigger, so that they can get attention... and the girls with big boobs know that the attention is not positve, and want the attention to go away?
Just trust that Karma will come and get her back for all the rotten things she has done. Continue to be a good person, and treat people the way you want to be treated. Focus on school... only two more years, and then life really begins!!! When you come back for your 10 year reunion... she'll be divorced, and miserable, and worn out from all the kids she had... Karma =)

Answer 6

There probably just jealous of you. Any girl that would treat another this way for no reason has her own problems. The best thing you can do is laugh at them, don't wave back to someone that's going to make you look like the idiot. If i were you i would confront each of them, standing up for yourself is the best way to show people you aren't afraid of them. If some girl or anyone for that matter tried to kick me i would litterly kick her azz!
Either ignore them or stand up to them!!

Answer 7

I know the exact same things your going through and it gets extremely old really quick and you try to be the best you can be and the most likable and everything you just have to ignore it and just ignore them and then they will leave you alone hopefully and its worse when the people think its their business to know everything thats going on in your life and thinks its a big deal and its just insane. High school Never Ends, its like that throughout life. then again adults are alot better at being nice and friendlier.

Answer 8

well it sounds to me like you need to kick those girls asses. they are mean. but ya know that is high school. i am 19 so i kind of know what your going through. just ignore them. i would just stay away from them and not even wave to them. eventually they will give up and find someone else to pick on. so dont wave or say hi your just giving them something to laugh at. forget being their friend cuz that isnt gonna happen. just toughen up because you have 2 more years to deal with these girls.

Answer 9

I am sorry for your problem. Best thing is to ignore it. It will all blow over. The other girls are probably jealous because of your bra size. I know it is hard but don't let it get to you. Good luck to you.

Answer 10

kids are just like that.......... just ignore them, and stand your ground.

For the one that tries to put you down............ just keep a straight face, and come back at her with blunt put-down liable to make her jaw drop to the ground. Like if she boasts about sleeping with someone, come back at her with something like "What size batteries does he take?".
For the problem in Gym class, she's trying to intimidate you........ the only way to deal with someone trying to do this is to intimidate back even harder......... like if playing a ball game, like soccer or whatever, wait 'til they've got the ball and charge right at them then either barge them off the ball as hard as you can shoulder-to-shoulder......... or launch into a kamikaze sliding tackle (for some strange reason they quit picking on me at school / college after I started doing that). Or if playing something like Rounder / softball / baseball.......... try to fire the ball at them as hard as you can.

Failing that, another good way to deal with them is to become an extremely cruel practical joker................. like get a cup of water, then without hardly blinking walk towards them and throw it at their crotch so it looks like they've wet themselves, and everyone starts making fun of THEM instead.
Here's a site I've found with a few more suggestions:
http://www.pranksite.com/

Basically give them a clear message - Don't **** with me, or you'll regret it.