My dad past away when i was 4. i have no one
2007-02-07 05:42:45 · 35 answers · asked by mutt 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
Oh honey I feel for you. I am so sorry about that. You are definately in my prayers but I do hope you have somebody like and grandmas or grandpas, aunties uncles. Hopefully you have somebody to be with you in this tough time. I couldn't imagine what you are going through. I wish you all the best and I will be praying for you okay dear.
2007-02-07 05:50:38 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
My dad died when I was 15 and I haven't spoken to my mom in 11 years. It does suck, but you have to be strong. Your life can still be amazing, it will just be a lot harder than what it should have been. You have the right and the ability to really do something great with your life and only you can get yourself there. Start developing friendships that are as strong as or stronger than family. I have some remarkable friends that are better than any family member I could ask for. There are many great people before you that came from nothing and became something great. Many US Presidents had to deal with what you are going through now. If they could become president look at what you could achieve just by picking yourself back up again. No life is not fair nor is it easy, but the people that stay in the game become wonderful people. Don;t check out now. As you age you will see things will get better and life always has some hard bumps you just need to learn how to jump over the bumps. If church makes you feel better go there. If you don't go to church, give it a try. There is always many sets of ears there for you to talk to. If not try a teacher that you trust at school. Find somebody older to confide in and they will help you through this. Try to stay strong even though the pain is overwhelming.
2007-02-07 06:30:10 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i am sooooooooo sorrry. i cant imagine what you are going through. losing a parent is the most heart wrencher there is. there isnt much anyone can say or do. but just be there for you at such an awful time. just depend on the rest of your family and friends to help you through this rough time. 14 is a very young age to be without parents. i feel so bad for you. you will feel a little bit stronger everyday. remember all the hugs and kisses she gave you and all the little things she did for you. it will help. you will cry a lot but that is okay. let it out and you will feel better. try talking to a really good friend or even a counselor a school counselor perhaps. i wish you the best of luck through this terrible time. and remember your not alone. you have friends family and us here on yahoo answers!!
2007-02-07 07:11:23 · answer #3 · answered by malibu 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey girl I'm 15 and can come kinda close to what you're going through. It's really hard to lose parents at this age. You want them there with you to help you through school, your mom to hlep you with your makeup and your daddy to tell you how beautiful you are. I've been through it all. I'm so sorry that you lost your parents, and I will be praying for you. Remember that your mom and dad are watching you, loving you, no matter what you do. They are grieving because you're grieving. They don't want you to give up, but they are begging you to hold your chin up. If there are any churches around, I would recomend you go to one, people there are very loving and helpful. Especially at non-denominational churches. Don't bury your hurt sweetie, but let all the pain and anger out. Take it out on a pillow, or pull on hangars in the closet, whatever. Please - just don't bottle it up inside. If you let it all go then time will help heal your pain, and one you will have a family of your own to love and cherish. Heal now so that you can love later. I'm praying for you and hope that the million pieces it feels like your heart is in come back together and get healed.
Sincerely,
Kaya
oh, one more thing. Find ppl who will be like your parents, who will keep you accountable, and you can ask them stuff you would ask your mom. Don't throw away your parents generation.
2007-02-07 06:20:23 · answer #4 · answered by :) 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes you can go on, and you have to, I believe in you
and I know this kind of thing is hard, but trust me, this
is going to happen to everyone at some point.
You're 14 and you're life is just about to get really
fun, it's youre teen years and High School, then next is
College. you have A wonderful life just ahead.
Do you have any Brothers or Sister ??? or maybe Aunts
or Uncles?? I know it's not the same but they are you're
family and I"am sure there is love there, sometimes
A friend canbe really A comfort, My best friend sometimes
is there for me more then my family is and thats ok to.
The Lord will take care of you ok.
2007-02-07 09:47:44 · answer #5 · answered by koko 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry for your loss and the things you have to go through. Fourteen is a young age to be without parents, but you're not all alone. Your parents are watching over you in spirit adn they wouldn't want you to be upset. You prolly also have grandparents, aunts, uncles, etc. Most of all, you have God. Talk to Him when you have a hard time. Even though the grief of losing your parents will never go away, you can learn to accept it. Great things happen when you could rise above tough times. I wish you well.
2007-02-07 07:55:17 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It may appear that you are alone, but you are not. You mom is right there with you all the time. Just because you can't see her with your eyes, doesn't mean she isn't there. She is in your heart and mind, but also her literal spirit still exists and is still loving you as she always has. Stay strong and make her proud!
I know for a FACT the spirit exists outside the body. I have spoken with my grandmother a few times since her death. She even told me where she hid her rhinestone necklace and we found it just where she said it was. (I wasn't even in the same state when she died or had any idea she even had a rhinestone necklace until my sister asked me if I knew anything about it.)
This is just one example of many instances.
2007-02-07 06:02:41 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh honey, I'm so sorry to hear of your loss. There's not much that I can say that will make you feel better. But you have to be strong and go on with your life. You may feel like it's hopeless now and you wanna be sad all the time, but remember your mama, I'm sure she wouldn't want you sad and upset, she'd want you to be strong and move on. Your mom will always be with you in spirit. Remember that. She loves you and respects you and wants to see you grow into a beautiful successful young lady. She wants you to put your head up and be strong and confident. Go to school and get your education. Enjoy your life and always remember that she's always watching over you and she will always love you.
*hugs*
Things are going to be hard for a while, but you will get through this. I promise. Keep your chin up, love.
2007-02-07 05:49:23 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Firstly, i am so sorry to hear this. I am 15 and i can imagine how hard this must be for you. Just remember that there are still so many people in the world who are there for you and people who love you.
Try to focus on the future. Right now it's hard to see the bright side but later in life you will have your own family who will love you and bring you happiness.
Things will soon get better, they always do. Good luck x
2007-02-07 05:52:26 · answer #9 · answered by lil_miss_em_xo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are different stages of cancers and the earlier things are caught the better. If she has pre cancerous cells in her ovaries she might be getting her ovaries taken out as a precaution against getting a worse form of anything. Take things day by day, try not to worry and mom will be around for a long time yet.
2016-05-24 03:27:41 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋