Here is the situation. My husband and I vastly disagree about who should be godparents to our unborn twins. We are ELCA Lutherans, if that makes any difference. We have a daughter, and got her baptized when she was 7 months old because we could not agree on the godparents. We finally agreed on friends, one who goes to church regularly, and one who definitely has faith, but doesn't attend church regularly. Now it seems like a dauting task to have to agree on godparents for the twins.
My husband believes that it should be someone who we feel close to, and who would be a good role model for our child throughout life. While I agree with this, I also believe that since this is one of two sacraments that our church practices, this is a religious event, and the godparents to our children should at the very least be those who believe in God, Jesus, and have a good sense of spirituality. My husband wants to choose a good friend who only goes to church for weddings and funerals. Help!
2007-12-18
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Kristin B
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