Pregnancy & Parenting - 25 January 2007

Basically My firend is 5 months pregnat and wants my boyfriend and I to move in with her whcih at first i didn't think was that big of a deal but now i realized that i don't want to waste my summer taking care of a kids im only 19 and want to live life and party and stuff and not grow up. Just because she is pregnat doesn't me I have to grow up. and none of this in a badway either I just want to have a fun summer and be able to do whatever I want and do not want tohave to be stuff babysitting and being quite because of the baby and I have no idea how to tell her this with out her thinking that we our bailing on her or not being htere forher
what to do?

2007-01-25 11:07:39 · 15 answers · asked by dreamergirl 1 in Pregnancy

tom loves his 8 yr old son matt dearly.i really want to develop a relationship with matt as i care for him too as i have been in his life since he was 2.the problem is tom's exwife feels i'm in "her spot" with tom(he left her 7yrs ago but not for me and she never got over it)now she has no control over this but has made it very clear i am to have nothing to do with her son matt.meaning i am not allowed to attend ANY school functions,spend time alone with matt,have no contact with teachers,doctors ect.she feels this is for her and tom only and i'm not really her son's family so its none of my business.tom being a great dad will not go against her wishies in fear it will cause problems for his son.my question is why all this drama?why can't she be happy her exhusband married someone who loves her child and wants to be part of his life?

2007-01-25 11:05:26 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Parenting

Im 15 and my Boyfriend is 19. Whats the best way to tell my mom 1: I have a boyrfriend 2: And that he is 19??

2007-01-25 11:04:54 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Adolescent

i had put on a pad because then previos day i had a lot of discharge and i pulled outit had a brown looking mark on the side what does it mean.is it a sign of my first period? i was not dark though.it felt like it was discharge.

2007-01-25 11:00:39 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Adolescent

My finace and I want to have kids within 1 year of us getting married..we want to start trying this fall.. I have been on deppo for 2 months.. so 2 shots.. I am supposed to go in this week for my next shot but Im not sure if I just just stop now and not even bother with it?!?! Please help!

2007-01-25 10:58:54 · 6 answers · asked by Puppylove2_2000 1 in Trying to Conceive

Could i get Birth Control pills without my parents knowing?

2007-01-25 10:58:50 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Adolescent

2007-01-25 10:58:42 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Trying to Conceive

I will be going on a week long vacation with a 2.3 month old. I will have to take something she can sleep in and will need something portable but that i can also either fit in my suitcase or check through the airlines. What would I be better off with as I cant really tell the difference between a pack-n-play or portable bassinet.

2007-01-25 10:56:31 · 10 answers · asked by eask 2 in Newborn & Baby

i am wondering if there is something else wrong with her, the doctor said she is 10 weeks, but she is showing and gaining aot of weight, also is bigger than when she was preganet with her other kids. i hear that at 10 weeks u r suppost to lost weight not gain it. is there something else wrong with her.

2007-01-25 10:56:18 · 6 answers · asked by robert h 1 in Pregnancy

My Fiance and I want to have Kids within 1 year of getting married...I have only been on Deppo for about 6 months (so 2 shots) I am supposed to go in this week to get my next shot, but if we want to try and get pregnant this fall should I just get off the deppo? Please help!!!

2007-01-25 10:54:55 · 11 answers · asked by Puppylove2_2000 1 in Trying to Conceive

What should the parents have done differently? How is one to handle a child who refuses to calm down when they will not listen, respond to punishment (timeout), and ignoring thier bad behavior won't work. Please do not give me an answer such as "whip the child" This is not an option.

2007-01-25 10:53:17 · 23 answers · asked by tigerlily23 3 in Toddler & Preschooler

2007-01-25 10:49:58 · 10 answers · asked by cutie 3 in Newborn & Baby

Im 8 days late now ive taken 2 home preg test both negative but im never late wots up with me please help. ive been to the doctors and the same thing he told me to wait but its killing me i just want to know.

2007-01-25 10:47:52 · 24 answers · asked by carly m 1 in Trying to Conceive

hello, my name is brittany and i have a concern or some questions about birth control v.s ovulation. i got my period around december 31 and it ended by the fifth, i started my first new pack of bc on the 7th of jan. I was off bc for the month of december for differant reasons but continued in january. I had sexual intercourse around the time of the 11-16 with no condom. i am expected to get my per. around the 1rst. i am concered that i may be pregnant because i have some slight nausea and stomach aches. any comments?? please help!

2007-01-25 10:45:51 · 6 answers · asked by brittany K 1 in Adolescent

Full name would be Trystan Evelyn Burke

or, what do you think of Brooklyn Rachelle Burke?

2007-01-25 10:44:19 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Pregnancy & Parenting

2007-01-25 10:44:15 · 5 answers · asked by uhd0rableo8 4 in Adolescent

Ive been having brown spotting since saturday the 20th. I ovulated on the 14th (I took a ov test). My period isnt due until the 28th. Anyone else ever have this happen? It happened last month too. Ive been ttc for the past 3 months now and am wondering if anyone else has brown spotting for this long which either stops before getting or leads to their period?

Thanks in advance

2007-01-25 10:42:59 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy

My boyfriend and i are talking about marriage and children and im looking on theses forums things and alot of dicussion about breastfeeding. I would love to breastfeed but i just cant get that thought out of my head how gross it is. I mean to me i associate that with sex ( your man sucking on your nipples) to me its very sexual .. How do i get that out of my head in order to be able to breastfeed because its better for your baby... Are there other woman who have/had this issue??.... Im 20 by the way so please dont be harsh im just asking how do you stop taking that sexual and turn it into Providing for your child Thanks so much

2007-01-25 10:37:31 · 20 answers · asked by a b 1 in Newborn & Baby

Has any1 test a week after sex and got a positive and whats the most accurate test

2007-01-25 10:37:20 · 6 answers · asked by jennifertrinitysky 4 in Pregnancy

I know that all children are different and can vary widely, I just want a general idea of how on-track my daughter is. Thanks :)

2007-01-25 10:36:43 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Toddler & Preschooler

when a woman is pregnant, they measure from the pelvic bone to the belly button, how do you transfer inches into weeks to find out how far along they are?

2007-01-25 10:34:54 · 5 answers · asked by Ali 1 in Pregnancy

her mom wants to name her really bad names and i dont tell my cousin(her mom) that .i just want the opinions of others
carly jo (red neck)
zoey marie (thats kinda cute )

2007-01-25 10:33:46 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Adolescent

2007-01-25 10:33:12 · 8 answers · asked by insaneham 1 in Toddler & Preschooler

Someone sent this to my daughter and now she wants me to explain to her why it is this way how do I properly?
You call me "Cracker", "Honkey", "Whitey", "Gringo" and you think it's OK.
But when if I call you Kike, porch monkey, sand ni**er, rag head ,Towelhead, WOP, Camel Jockey, ****, slant eyes, yellowskinned, blackie or Chink you call me a racist.
You say that whites commit a lot of violence against you, so why are the ghettos the most dangerous places to live?
You have the United ***** College Fund.
You have Martin Luther King Day.
You have Black History Month.
You have Cesar Chavez Day.
You have Yom Hashoah
You have Ma'uled Al-Nabi
You have the NAACP.
You have BET.
You have the NCAA.
If we had WET(white entertainment television) ...we'd be racist.
If we had a White Pride Day... you would call us racist.
If we had white history month... we'd be racist.
If we had an organization for only whites to "advance" our lives... we'd be racist.
If we had a college fund that only gave white students scholarships...you know we'd be racist.
In the Million Man March, you believed that you were marching for your race and rights. If we marched for our race and rights...you would call us racist.
Did you know that some high school students decided to make a club for only the white students because the other ethnicities had them... they all got sent to court for being racist but the african-american, Latino, and Asia clubs were not even questioned.

-You are proud to be black, brown, yellow and orange, and you're not afraid to announce it. But when we announce our white pride, you call us racists.
I am white.

I am proud.

But, you call me a racist.



Why is it that only whites can be racists?


Now watch, I'll be a racist for posting this

2007-01-25 10:32:37 · 3 answers · asked by stegall_sherry 4 in Parenting

(For the past 2 weeks) ( the first week i was only at 1 cm and 50% effaced) I am 2cm dialated and 80% effaced and minus 2 in station, i was just wondering how much longer do i have, i have been having contractions, last night i went to the hospital and they told me that i was in early labor, what do i need to do in order to make myself go into active labor, i walk every day alot, some people say that there is an herbal tea that you can drink to make the contractions come, if anyone knows what kind of tea that is please let me know!!! I need her OUT!!! thanks

2007-01-25 10:32:07 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy

Please help me. I'm 13 years old.

Mom's taking me for a Blood Test. (personal reason) .

I'm very scared of Needles & don't want it. Soooo scared of Needles.

She can't force me - can she ??? Don't want to go.

2007-01-25 10:31:29 · 54 answers · asked by Anonymous in Adolescent

Having a baby girl soon,(in a week)and can't think of any cute names,any ideas?I actually came up with "Krystabelle" and "Samantha",what do you think?I need serious help here.Thanx.

2007-01-25 10:30:48 · 26 answers · asked by ? 1 in Other - Pregnancy & Parenting

what was your chileds wieght at this age or what is the average weight?

2007-01-25 10:30:14 · 8 answers · asked by Dokie 2 in Newborn & Baby

I've done 3 tests that all say i'm pregnant but constantly feel like i'm going to get my period. is this normal?

2007-01-25 10:29:14 · 30 answers · asked by jay79 1 in Pregnancy

I am doing a book report for school and i have a problem I dont know a good title for my book do you know a good title?

2007-01-25 10:25:12 · 13 answers · asked by babygirl 3 in Pregnancy