Im 15 and my Boyfriend is 19. Whats the best way to tell my mom 1: I have a boyrfriend 2: And that he is 19??
2007-01-25 11:04:54 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
since that is sorta against the law she might be a little mad. just saying..
2007-01-25 12:31:03 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The age for legal consent in Canada is 14 he can not be charged with statutory rape. When my daughter was actually y your age she told me she likes someone we talked about it then she told me how old he was at the time he too was 19. We had him over for dinner and movies, they dated for a while. H respected her and they got along well. they did break up though but they are still great friends and it has been 4 yrs since. I always made it clear with my daughter that we can talk about anything and we still do now she is 20. I think you should tell your mom about your boyfriend be straight with her she will set some pretty good ground rules but the point is keep the communication open with her she can not help you or be there for you when you need her. Give her a chance to get to know this young man even if she is upset she still deserves to know what is going on with you. Just be honest
2007-01-25 20:10:18 · answer #2 · answered by kittysummerstar 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell her 16 and 19 isnt a big deal, and he cant be put in jail if your 16 the only way he would be put in jail is if he was more then 4 years older then you [its hard to explain] but i know all about that stuff haha im 16 the guy im with is 25 remember age is just a number. love is love
2007-01-25 21:29:56 · answer #3 · answered by beybii_giirll 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
yep its better to tell her when I waz 14 I was with a 17 almost 18 its easier to have a relationship with an older guy especially when your still in high school so much more mature as long as there a decent guy than its great mine wasnt so just make sure its all good and yes you should tell your mom she deserves to know
2007-01-25 19:20:13 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just say it babe. i was with a 19 year old when i was 16 and it wasn't the best thing, but it could have been a lot worse, like if i would have lied about it :)
2007-01-25 19:12:29 · answer #5 · answered by ♥sweet♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What are you going to do? Mime it? Sherades? Suck it up and tell her, and get ready to spring behind any sturdy furnature for cover.
He is overage and you are underage. Can anyone say Statutory rape? He could be put in jail as a sex offender if he has any kind of sex with you, or even if he kisses you, and then he will have to register as a sex offender the rest of his life. I hope he knows this.
2007-01-25 19:17:03 · answer #6 · answered by cleverness_444 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Be honest with your mother by telling her the truth. Your mother maybe angry and disappoint at first. However, she is your mother, she is there for you.
It will be hard for your mother to accept this news but she will be glad that you can come to her and tell her about it. BE strong and tell your mother like it is
2007-01-25 19:37:23 · answer #7 · answered by solitude 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell her..if hes a nice guy..
2007-01-25 19:42:39 · answer #8 · answered by Archie ♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋