I'm 25, and want to date a girl who's 20. She lives with her family, is going to college, and I met her while she worked at the coffee shop in the hospital I work at.
Her father, who happens to be a cop, has a huge issue with the age difference and has outright told her not to talk to me or do anything with me. The worst of it is he's said "He only wants to date you because he can't date anyone his own age," "He's only after 1 thing," and "What possible interest would a 25 year old have in you?" Which does nothing but destroy her selfesteem.
My intentions are totally honorable, she's a wonderful person, I know I'm falling for her, and it is definitely mutual between me and her. I keep hoping that he would meet me and find out who I am and not how old I am, but he refuses to meet me.
How do you handle this situation? Especially when you can't even get the chance to meet him.
2006-12-21
01:18:35
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MattM
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