Earlier I had asked how to deal with my 20 year old doing some crazy things, getting piercing in her tongue, lip, nose...also get her hair dyed and cut wearing a mowhawk.....also getting 7 tatooes on her back. My question is she is making me nuts! She lives at home (which is where I would rather her be), since I have to pay for things when she has lived on her own. My ex (her dad) talks to her a couple of times a year and lives 10 miles from us. So he is no help. She has made the comment that she does these things to irritate me which I don't understand. I pay her cell phone, bought her a car, pay her insurance, her money is her's to buy clothes and whatever. What I don't understand is she will do anything to disrespect me WHY? Also she threatens to move out if I have any issues with her........but I know that if she does it will cost me more money. So please don't say let her move and tough it out on her own.......because I can't let her be without a place to live or food.
2006-12-21
05:43:57
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Ann N
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