My oldest child is in 3rd grade, and he has a birthday coming up in the next two weeks. He desperately wants to have his birthday at the local community center, where the kids can climb the rockwall, play basketball, & go swimming. His classroom has a policy of inviting the WHOLE class, or no one, so that kids don't come to school talking about so & so's party and leave " little suzy-who-wasn't-invited out." There are 27 kids in his class, and there would also be roughly a dozen kids from our family & friends. I expect most of the boys & a few of the girls from class would show up, at a cost of $14 per kid. We're talking about a $250 party if approximately 20 kids show up without even buying food & presents yet!! So....I was thinking about asking the families to pay $7 per kid, and I would also put something on the invitations to the effect of "Your presence, not your presents, is requested for Ethan's 9th birthday." Would it be tacky of me to make that request, or is it fair?
2006-12-01
14:06:45
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