i have 2 children, one is 2 1/2 and the other is almost a year old. I feel very overwhelmed when it comes to taking on all the responsiblities when it comes to both of them. My husband and I have a major problem with what is fair when it comes to them. I feel like when hes home from work he should help out with cleaning up after dinner, baths, picking up the house. He feels like he gets no rest time, but either do I . When hes at work, I am going non stop with chores and my 2 girls. Then he gets home does his thing and rests.Fine with me. But how much time goes by before I should ask for help. Sometimes he will lay on the couch. Yea he associates with the girls, but I will be getting all frustrated because I will be cleaning, cooking, laundry, and the girls will be bugging me for attention, and he doesnt understand why Iam getting mad at him. Am I out of line by feeling like this? We cant seem to settle this dispute between us, and I keep pulling further away from him. PLEASE HELP!!
2006-09-27
12:48:27
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2girlsmother
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