I've been hearing a lot of things I don't no what to expect does it really hurt and If so why does it
2006-09-27 12:14:08 · 34 answers · asked by Kam 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
im a virgin...so i couldn't tell ya. lol.
2006-09-27 12:15:50 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
Well I am i the same situation as you are. I am ready for sex but not the pain, so I really understand why you wanna know so much about the situation and the consequences. But I do agree with some other comments get on birth control and still use condoms! Also I think it is really good if you and this boy you are planning to have sex talk about it so u can know weather you should wait or actually do it. But mainly don't let someone force you in doing anything you don't wanna do or regret it. To me your virginity has to be the most precious gift you could give to anyone and I don't think you just wanna give it to anyone. But about the pain, yes there will be pain since we are "small" well I know I am a petite figured girl...LOL but still make sure he is gentle and isn't all rough and stuff. and yes: you will bleed!But don't be afraid to tell him that you are nervous and you are scared it will hurt and if he is a good boyfriend, he will understand your decision and feelings on the subject, hope this helps...girlie
2006-09-28 08:10:38 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I depends on how you look at it. If you use tampons or are an active sports player you will not bleed. The reason why sex hurts is because you have what is called a Hymen. This is a thin layer of "Skin" that makes you a virgin. The thing is that the right person and the right time is all that matters. Sex does not improve a realationship. If he loves you he will wait. You'll know when the right time comes. Good Luck.
2006-09-27 12:21:24 · answer #3 · answered by unknown 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Yes I have heard it hurts the first couple of times if your a virgin. Your hymen tears and you may bleed the first couple of times and be sore for a couple of days. If you are having sex get on birth control to help prevent pregnancy. It is not 100 percent effective so always use a condom too to help prevent STD's and pregnancy. I think you should only have sex if you are able to face the consequences and are properly educated. Methods like the pull out method and sex standing up don't work. Always use condoms and birth control. Be CAREFUL.
2006-09-27 12:23:10 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
First of all, yes, when you first have sex, it does hurt. Secondly, how old are you and are you thinking about having sex? You should definitely talk to someone to get the facts straight before you decide to have sex. You could talk to a parent, or if your not comfortable with this, you could go to a "planned parenthood" where they will give you information and any contraceptives that you may need. Planned Parenthood is free, and discreet, if you do not want your parents to know.
2006-09-27 12:41:29 · answer #5 · answered by *Logan's Mommy* 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes, there is a little piece of skin inside of you that a guy brakes the first time you have sex. It does hurt most girls and there may be a little bit of bleeding afterward. And, honestly, you shouldn't have to do anything that you don't feel completely comfortable with. DON"T feel pressured by your boyfriend to have sex before you know your body, your heart, and YOURSELF... totally. Don't worrier about him if he's rushing you. you're probably young, you CAN find another guy. So screw him... but not literally. LOL!!
2006-09-27 12:51:03 · answer #6 · answered by big kountry 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
yes for the first time it does hurt alot your thing is really small and to fit a penis in it hurts you have to make sure you do it with someone who really cares for you and cares how you are feeling cuz if not then they will only think about thier pleasure and dont care how much pain you are in and just stick it all the way in and that is very painful ..
2006-09-27 13:04:36 · answer #7 · answered by rc2007 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
With a man, yes - so don't do it - especially not without a CONDOM. He won't get knocked up - YOU will. He won't have a sore crotch - YOU will. There's LOTS of women who find it painful and sore and it just doesn't feel good no matter how many times they try or how much lube they use! Get a woman to give you a real LICK. No pain and it's the best thing on earth because women do it best! Trust me - it'll blow your mind, and you won't think of boinking a guy if the right woman spins your head.
2006-09-27 12:14:51 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
it almost always hurts the first time. and of course it hurts when men don't know what they are doing :) it hurts b/c you are forcing the width banana (give or take several inches depending on how fortunate he is :) into something the width of a watermelon seed. additionally, our bodies are naturally curved a certain way to naturally extract bodily fluids...they are not designed to fit a penis...at least not initially :)
with time your body will adjust, and the pain will decrease. but again, it all depends on how "fortunate" the man is :)
2006-09-27 12:20:00 · answer #9 · answered by sexy law chick 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm not going to give you a bunch of babble and being ready and all that, you get the picture.
All I can say is, there are two good ways to lose it.
1.) Be drunk or high, you won't remember or you won't care.
2.) If you're in love you won't care about the pain.
2006-09-27 14:06:48 · answer #10 · answered by Mel 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The first time, it will likely hurt.
2006-09-27 12:15:30 · answer #11 · answered by Dane 6 · 4⤊ 0⤋