2006-09-27 12:18:32 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Trying to Conceive
Just tell her because not telling her is wasting valueable time that she needs to get rid of it. Just come out and say something like i went to the doctor and i was told that i have ______ and well i think i got it from you.
2006-09-27 12:33:06 · answer #1 · answered by Diamond 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First be sure that it is from her, if she knows that she didn't have anything when she met you and didn't cheat then it'll be clear that you did.
Second, did you guys just start having sex? If not, I would question what she's been doing recently (only if you haven't been doing things yourself)
If you did just start, then it's possible that she had something from the last guy and might not have known.
Either way she needs to get to a doctor asap.
I'm assuming that you've been to a doctor yourself, so maybe just show her your results and tell her that she needs to get checked for the same thing (and other std's if it's been a while)
Try to be gentle, it's a touchy subject.
Don't go at her yelling and accusing. Give her a chance to explain her side and decide now what you're willing to do (as far as being with her and trust issues)
And do it quickly, there are some stds that can cause major problems if not treated soon enough.
Good Luck
2006-09-27 12:38:52 · answer #2 · answered by morethanfacevalue 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
here is what's available. Herpes simplex virus, sort a million and sort 2 would be unfold via non-sexual touch. mutually as one is asserted as chilly sore and the different one is extra attributed to STD, in fact, the two would be transmitted the two way. it quite is available which you will get Herpes even whilst the two one in all you're virgin. additionally, many STD will bypass from mum and dad to infant at delivery. only considering you have not any earlier journey would not assure one hundred% which you will not have one. With that reported.... the potential for above is rather small aside from the herpes. it is how extra desirable than a million/3 of the inhabitants have the virus understanding or unknowing. the only thank you to make certain is to be examined yet bear in strategies, till you tell the conventional practitioner what particular STD you desire to understand, they often only attempt for HIV. lots of the assessments are only blood attempt the place as some are particularly invasive. (which includes cotton swab inserted into your sexual organ) the only thank you to be one hundred% particular is to evade sexual touch. the 2d determination yet much less stable is to coach risk-free intercourse regardless.
2016-10-18 02:30:58 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well my boyfriend did that to me.. he gave me something but it wasn't that big its called HPV and on women it goes away and comes back but you have it forever... first did she know she had it??? and than i would tell her you got tested and after you and her had sex and it came out that you got something and that's how you know its from her!!!! but see my boyfriend didn't know he had it cause on men theres a 15% chance it'll show up when they test him!! and he was the only male i slept with that i didn't use a condom... but hey we've been together for 2 yrs and getting married and trying to have a kid!! good luck and hopefully you didn't get anything too bad!!!
2006-09-27 12:55:53 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
my doctor said that i have gonosyphylherpelies, and if i have it you should probably get tested for it to since we are in fact, bumpin uglies. and as long as ya'll ain't cheating on each other, just be glad that this is something from your past that's haunting you. and not your present.
2006-09-27 12:47:53 · answer #5 · answered by timswifeamy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be blunt and say it because she was blunt enough to cheat and get the std, then go on with your life.
2006-09-27 12:35:42 · answer #6 · answered by ahunter25 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How do you know you didn't give it the her? STD's can lay dormant sometimes.
2006-09-27 15:28:35 · answer #7 · answered by Jen n CraigB 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be kind but be clear about what you have, your symptoms, and that you believe you got it from her. Then be prepared to hold her hand and hug her and let her know how much you care about her.
2006-09-27 12:28:52 · answer #8 · answered by Mrs. Strain 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call her right now and just tell her. It will be ok.
2006-09-27 12:44:42 · answer #9 · answered by smart200106511 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
are you sure it was her and not you if you are positive then just tell her she is the one that is going to be embarrassed
2006-09-27 12:37:03 · answer #10 · answered by chiefs fan 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋