I would like to know, preferably from a Vietnam vet what to do here. My lover is a vet who had a very difficult time (as thousands and thousands did) for a lot of years when he came home. This was followed by financial problems and divorces etc...He has been through many years of therapy and has done remarkably well. He is generally very well adjusted, gentle and compassionate. I am exceedingly proud of him!
He is having a very hard time right now and is isolating himself for hours and hours at a time in his work room - just smoking and thinking, etc.. He is still kind and has shown no temper or anything like that, but I don't know how to help him. He has not offered to talk about it, though he knows that I would listen and be there for him.
Our love life has come to a halt over the last eight days and he is staying up all night, just chain smoking, working on little projects, etc.. For the last couple of nights I've gone out to his work room in lingerie at midnight
2006-12-21
03:51:15
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