I want to join the Army for 4 years active duty as an Indirect Fire Infantryman(11C).I'm not scared to get sent to Iraq.
I want to become a soldier, & soldiers fight in wars.But my mom doesn't support my decision to enlist at all.My older brother committed suicide when I was 9, he was 19.And my dad died when I was 13. And she is worried about my safety if I join the Army. She told me, that she doesn't want to lose another man in her life. And my grandma doesn't want me to enlist, & she is probably going to die soon.She is 84, & has a very weak heart. I've already talked to a recruiter about my situation. And he told me that the Army probably wouldn't let me come home to my grandma's funeral.If she died while I was in bootcamp, or serving active duty.I want to go to her funeral. But I don't know how my mom is going to handle her death. She might be very upset, & want me to stay home. Do you think I should wait to enlist until after my grandma dies?
Serious answers only please.
2007-08-28
08:54:58
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