I just read a post in which a woman with bipolar disorder asked if she should have a child. I know that I'm going to draw a lot of criticism for posting this, but read the rest of this post. First of all, let me say that I have firsthand experience with mental illness. I have depression, anxiety, and ADHD, all of which have genetic components. Because of the fact that these disorders are often hereditary, I have seriously questioned whether it's a good idea to risk having a child who would have those issues. I can't help but think that if someone knows that he/she has a hereditary mental illness, he/she should seriously consider whether it's a good idea to risk having a child who will suffer the way that he/she has suffered. Of course, just because a parent has an illness like depression or bipolar disorder doesn't mean that the child will necessarily have it, but the risk IS there! Many people focus on their desire to have children rather than the possible issues their children would
2007-11-28
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