My boyfriend used to be this funny, sociable, outgoing guy with a natural zest for life. He was nice, sweet, thoughtful and he was crazy about me. We used to do everything together like going to clubs, dinner, movies, etc. However, things changed when he got promoted. As his work got really demanding, he began to get so stressed. He became irritable, sickly, moody, and fights with his manager. He avoided pleasurable activities so we rarely go out. When he became guilty and apologized to me, i tried not to let him feel any pressure by saying its ok, he lashed out that i dont care about him. The next day, he said he he will miss me and he likes me so much but he cant see me for a while because he is so stressed and he doesnt want me to get annoyed with him. He said he also wants me to have fun. Now, I don't hear from him, no calls, no text, nothing. What's happening? Should I reach out to him or give him space? Maybe its just an excuse to get rid of me? Help, please!
2007-11-01
21:46:30
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Mental Health