Health - 31 October 2007

My BF & I use to just see eachother at w.ends as thats all our work schedules would allow, we moved in together the w.end & now I discover he has a very low sex drive. He said it has nothing to do with me that it has always been like this, prob is I have a very high one. We had a long chat last night to see where we go from here & we both want to try work it out. When we do sleep together its fantastic but the going without for over a week or 2/3 is just not an option for me. he told me last night that he thinks its possibly cos he smokes an excessive amount but also cos he was out with his ex 1 night in a bar & he overheard her tell her friends he was crap in bed & they were laughing at him. This is not the case for me, he is the best lover I have evr had. he said he believes me but it knocked his confidence & plays on his mind alot. He said he use to think I might be faking it. If I got his confidence back slowly is there a chance his sex drive might increase or is this permanent??

2007-10-31 23:58:50 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Men's Health

i noticed about 2 weeks ago little lumps far up inmyy vagina nearly and every day they seem 2 b getting closer to the entrance of my vagina any 1 heard of this before ??

sorry about the way i worded it not very good at english :P x

2007-10-31 23:45:13 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Women's Health

i'm trying to get thin by reduce my food ( have breakfast, lunch & no dinner) and also by some sports. but my problem is i love dessert & sweet.

2007-10-31 23:37:03 · 10 answers · asked by marmor_1982 1 in Women's Health

Answer in Yes or No..
Should be Truth

2007-10-31 23:27:15 · 12 answers · asked by Allen Iverson 1 in Men's Health

I was on the pill for 7 years and had no problems. About 3 months ago I started having cramps midway through my cycle. I then was naseaus, lightheaded and had a bachache. Everything I read said I could be preg. so I stopped taking the pill. A week later I got my period. My husband and I decided to start trying to have kids so I never went back on the pill. For the past two months about midway through my cycle I get horrible cramps (in the middle and on both sides) and I get lightheaded and nauseas. This lasts up until I get my period (about 1 1/2 - 2 weeks) This month I had a fever (there was a cold going around work so that may not even be related). My periods have been normal (much more cramping than when I was on the pill). We have had unprotected sex so pregnancy is always an option, but the pain has been the same each month. I hate going to the dr's - should I go or is this normal?

2007-10-31 23:09:35 · 4 answers · asked by everafter325 3 in Women's Health

I really need to know

2007-10-31 23:07:42 · 5 answers · asked by alea I 1 in Women's Health

i found this on ebay.... should i buy?
http://cgi.ebay.com/ws/eBayISAPI.dll?ViewItem&rd=1&item=120178024277&ssPageName=STRK:MESE:IT

2007-10-31 23:06:22 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Women's Health

why do people think that just because a person has gastric bypass, they are going to efforetlessly keep weight off for life and not have to diet and exercise? have these people really looked into what it's like after surgery for these people?

Yes, there is a several month period where the weight comes off easily, but if you don't eat right and exercise, it comes right back when your body adjusts to the changes, and those that do what they are supposed to do keep it off, those who don't, gain back.

I had gastric bypass almost 3 years ago & I have to eat very carefully and exercise just like everyone else because I gain weight just like before. I can't eat sugar, I can't even eat cereal without getting sick.

I guess I just want to know how many gastric bypass bashers actually know what the procedure does to a person and what makes them think the weight just magically stays off without effort, where did that idea come from for those who think that?
thanks.
250-105=145 :

2007-10-31 23:02:56 · 5 answers · asked by ♠Mrs Reznor♠ 6 in Diet & Fitness

I'm a 5' 9" fifteen year old sophomore, and I wiegh 145 lbs. I have rather large hips. I run Cross country, Indoor Track and Spring Track year round. My problem is, continuously throughout the last month multiple people have either hinted or said that I am either (directly from them) a. Very Big b. Kinda Fat
I cannot tell from just looking at myself because I have issues with OCD, so I was wondering, Are these people lieing or telling the truth?

2007-10-31 22:52:12 · 5 answers · asked by thefirstrunner 1 in Diet & Fitness

My wife's period started yesterday morning but she told me that she only bled for about 3 or 4 hours and then it just completely stopped. Neither of us have any idea what's happened and quite frankly, we're a little concerned. Can anyone shed some light on this situation?

2007-10-31 22:46:35 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Women's Health

We have a lot of sex, even if I'm not really in the mood. I don't know what to do. I always ask him to have a bit of foreplay, but the longest htat lasts is two minutes.
What could I say or suggest to him?
I'm not very experienced, he's my first, but he is, so I don't know what to do...?

2007-10-31 22:44:16 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Men's Health

I'm suffering from weird headaches, period type cramps, awful mood swings (i cried for an hour last night for no reason), I also keep going lightheaded. Im really stressed at work and college at the moment and am hoping that is the reason, but would appreciate a second opinion.

2007-10-31 22:41:47 · 5 answers · asked by Rachael 2 in Women's Health

Dont you girls feel relief and much more comfort when your off your period for this month and finally going a month of comfort without the pad? Well thats how I feel

2007-10-31 22:34:52 · 5 answers · asked by SiKk15 2 in Women's Health

it started a few days ago and i feel like i need to pee but when i try only a little comes out and its a little painful, ive never had sex before or done anything sexual so i doubt its anything to do with that, and i thought about drinking a lot of water but i wasn't sure if it would make it worse if i still cant go, any ideas

2007-10-31 22:33:28 · 4 answers · asked by anangelcalled 2 in Women's Health

hey im 13 and for some reason i like masturbating with a full bladder. Is this normal and why do i enjoy it better like this?

Sometimes i like it just normal full bladder but once i tried it with an extremely full bladder. i was desperate to go to the toielt on the way home from school then wen i got home i ram to the tolet but for some reason decided to hold it and masterbate. I got in the shower (without the water runnin to save water) and masterbated. I was really really badly busting to pee i was jumping around a bit while masterbating but it felt sooo good, y is this? After i ejaculated the pee started coming out straight away, and i couldnt control it (it was makin a loud sound on the floor) why did it come out straight after i ejacualted. I loved that feeling though.

Thanx

2007-10-31 22:32:27 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Men's Health

I found a mole had appeared on m back like over night.it is irregular shape stuck out a bit and a bit crusty.at first i thought it was a spot or sumthing but it obv wasnt..all the selp diagnosis sites point to malignant melanoma,any ideas

2007-10-31 22:12:14 · 11 answers · asked by awpking 1 in Cancer

my girlfriend is wanting to take the hydroxycut weight loss pill but is on the birthcontrol pill (APRI) does anyone know if this is safe for her to take while on this birthcontrol pill we dont want nothing to go wrong please help us thanks

2007-10-31 22:05:09 · 7 answers · asked by lilnuggy 2 in Women's Health

2007-10-31 21:48:18 · 6 answers · asked by cj 1 in Women's Health

what causes it and is it something that needs immediate attention

2007-10-31 21:39:08 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Women's Health

i want to know is there any rules and conditions for masterbatting i mean how many times can one do it in a week.. how many times in a day

2007-10-31 21:28:44 · 14 answers · asked by pappu h 1 in Men's Health

I have been getting anxiety attacks in my sleep every night for over 2 months now.
They are waking me up in the tiney hours of the morning and i can't sleep even after i calm down.
I am also feeling sick and throwing up during them.

This is really messing up my life and my grades at school...
I have been to a few Psychietrists and they all perscribed meds... but i don't want to take something that will mess with my head.

what do i do, i can't live like this anymore...

2007-10-31 21:21:17 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Mental Health

i tihink im reaching the big "O" it feels great but i usually have to tel my bf stop and dont like him touching me then for a while..why is this

2007-10-31 20:53:08 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Women's Health

so right b4 bed my and my lil bro start scratching like theres not tomorrow...and we get these lil spots?? and like its so bad its on my chest my ankels and like between my fingers his too or our buttocks...i mean have bruises between my egs froms scratching so mcuh?? any idea??whats wrong?

2007-10-31 20:50:05 · 9 answers · asked by **PrinCess** 2 in Other - Health

On Saturday night last i was out and got a vodka glass thrown at the back / side of my head it hit the part of my skull behind my ear. There was no blood just a bit of a dull pain and a small bump. i was pretty sore all day sunday with thumping pain but it went away by monday. Then monday night i had sex and just when i was about "to finish" i got this really bad pain all over the right hand side of the back of my head, in a bigger area to where i got hit, it went away after i had some sleep, no pain on tues or weds but last night i had sex again and just as i was about to "finish" again it happened again and now this morning i have woken up and the pain is still there. It is a kinda dull throbbing pain that kinda makes me feel as though i want to puke. Does anyone know what might this pain be cause i'm kinda worried there maybe a clot or something??? Pls no smart answers cause i am seriously in pain here at work and need to know whether i should go and see the doctor

2007-10-31 20:49:06 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Injuries

im 11 mah sistas got it when they were 8 they were lucky they didnt know wat a period was so they ddnt have 2 tell mah mom they just screamed cuz they didnt know they had there period but how do i tell mah mom??

i dont want mah sistas 2 know........n i dont really wanna tell mah mom like i got mah period like a month ago and i didnt tell her i just started washing my own langry bc i didnt want her 2 know i havent warn anything

i dont reallllly wanna tell her till im 13-15 i can hide it till then :P

2007-10-31 20:45:26 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Women's Health

i'm 16 years old so how many pounds will I get from eating all of that?

2007-10-31 20:43:02 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Diet & Fitness

i got a lot lot of bite mites from sleeping in my friend's bed one night. i went to the dermatologist and she prescribed me some desonide lotion, cetirizine (oral) and an optional dihydrochloride if it is too itchy. i used the desonide and the cetirize for 2 days and my bites seemed to be getting better but on the 2nd night i took the dihydrochloride and when i woke up my bites were swelling up! they were really itchy and they were worse than ever! i don't know if it is because of the dihydrochloride or is it just a coincidence? why is my medication not working?

2007-10-31 20:40:30 · 1 answers · asked by tams_3000 2 in Skin Conditions

Well im 24 male..what can i do to avoid i dont masturbate.some body told me they are a kind disease..is that right.confused a lot and worried about my sexual health & future sex health.

2007-10-31 20:27:17 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Men's Health

I am 27 and am finding it very difficult to fall asleep and stay that way for very long. I work all day and I feel tired but I can not stay asleep for long and I keep waking in the night about 4 times I am awake and find it very hard to get back to sleep. I have also been on Kalms sleep to see if they worked for me but they havent and I have also had a full blood picture taken and nothing is wrong. Can any one help me please?

2007-10-31 20:17:53 · 9 answers · asked by stardu5t7 3 in Other - General Health Care

I am 21 years old and my girlfriend has the hottest body and is so drop dead gorgeous, and she likes me with my shirt off but I have a bit of manboobs and a gut. Im so sick of this fat that I spent 350 bucks on a treadmill and 100 bucks on a basketball goal! I wanna push myself to lose this weight but I give up too easy. I need something like creatine or muscle milk to boost my energy way up. Plus im going to be doing lots of pushups and situps. GIVE ME SOME ADVICE! Please!

2007-10-31 20:09:25 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Diet & Fitness