My friend is getting married in 3 weeks, I'm her maid of honor. I have never been a moh before, so I'm not completely sure what all is expected from me. It seems that the bride has unreaslistic expectations for myself and the bridesmaids tho.
I have thrown the bridal shower, planned the stagette, spent hundreds of dollars on my dress & shoes, gifts, planning...etc. I have gone wedding dress shopping, and to fittings..etc. I have left work early to learn how to tie the train on her dress.
With Fathers Day coming up, she expects me to throw away my plans with my family to do hair trials.
The day before the wedding she wants us to take off work to set up the hall.
If we can't make it to do something, she acts all sad and upset and tries to guilt us into it.
Does she not realize that we have lives ASIDE from her wedding? We all have jobs, and families and school. She is a stay at home mom who is obsessed with this wedding.
Is she being selfish or am I?? How do I deal??
2007-06-12
11:01:41
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