My Sister's getting married this October & I'm the Matron-of-honor.
She has requested no showers of any kind & they (my Sister & Brother-in-law to be) will be treating us (their family & friends) to a relaxing day at the spa the Friday before the wedding. They do not want a Bachelorette/Bachelor Party, a rehearsal dinner, bridal shower, reception...anything. They have also requested no gifts.
I would really like to throw her a lingerie party, but am not sure of it would be inappropriate for me to do so.
I have talked to my soon to be Brother-in-law & he has no objections to whatever type of party I would like to host for her, but I don't want it to look like I am doing something that I would want, rather than what she wants.
I don't think the issue is that they don't want a party...I think it's because most of their friends and siblings have kids & they don't want us spending money on them, when they can afford to buy their own things.
Any ideas, suggestions, comments?
2007-03-16
11:42:08
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Leebert
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