We've both been thru this before and don't want anything big. We've planned on small, private, wedding, to include two of his and two of my kids.
But then there's the dress, his jacket, the $400airfare to get my daughter down here when she really doesn't care; get the kids here, there, drop off, meet these people, the adults-only gathering after the ceremony, then kids again the next day and the HUGE POTLUCK RECEPTION that's just getting too big....I'm stressing BIG TIME! My hereditary skin condition has flared up (stress-related) and will soon cover my entire body--which means i can't wear a dress and certainly can't go to the beach for our honeymoon.
And I don't want to go to the beach ANYWAY!!
I just want to go down to the Courthouse and be done with this, relieve all this stress, and deal with the reception!
How do I get my fiance to see how difficult this is becoming on me? I wanted to go to Tahoe--adults only--but he's determined to have his 9yr old daughter present.
2007-03-22
07:14:00
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moniquebell
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