It's less than 3 months until my wedding. We're getting the addresses together, so no invitations have been sent out yet. The space will only fit around 125 so we're trying to keep the list tight. The problem is, we opened our big mouths and made verbal invites back when we expected to be getting married in 2006, and way before we had sat down and worked out a budget (back when I expected my parents'd be helping far more than they can). My mom invited her cousins whom I barely know and my dad expects me to invite his cousin, who helped me with paying for college in the 20th century but whom I don't know well, either. My fiance and I invited "friends" who have turned out to be, or become, more like acquaintances, and a couple of friends with whom there are now chilly feelings bc of recent history. But the sibling of one we do want to come, so is it ok to invite one sib but not the other? Since we haven't yet mailed any invitations, how can we uninvite certain people we invited way back?
2007-02-23
08:01:47
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