Almost one year ago my best friend's dad died suddenly of a heart attack one week before her wedding. She of course has put the wedding off. But mine is coming up in spetember...about three weeks after the anniversery of her dad's death. We had been to a friends wedding earlier in the year and I saw how it hurt her to see the bride dance with her dad. So I had decided I wasnt going to dance with my dad at my wedding, because the last thing I want is my maid of honor and best friend to be hurting, i know its going to be hard enough for her as it is. My mom said my dad wont care if we dont do the dance, but the closer it gets to the wedding the more I dream about that dance with my dad. I know I can go without, I dont want to hurt her and I dont want to have any regrets not having that moment with my dad. But would that be selfish? Would I regret not doing it? I dont know weather this if i am making too big a deal out of this. I love my best friend and I love my dad. What do I do?
2006-07-28
07:29:26
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Heather T
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