Please help me.
2006-07-28 07:43:08 · 13 answers · asked by Crazy Girl 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
I just got married in June and my husband had a bachelor party. They rented a limo and went to a strip club. That way he saw the strippers but due to security and the fact that it's more of a public place there was less chance of anything happening. I also told him to have a good time there but that I didn't want to hear about it afterwards.
Personally for my bachelorette party my girls wanted to do strippers but i'm just not into having naked men I don't know be all over me. We ended up renting a limo and going bar hopping and to a nice dinner. It was a really good time.
Congrats on your wedding and good luck!
2006-07-28 08:02:46 · answer #1 · answered by jessicamarie0572 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your fiance really wants a striper, then allow him. He'll be with other guy friends. If you cant trust him now then you shouldn't be marrying him. Make sure he understands that this is a one time deal for him. Most likely he won't do anything. From what I heard, men like to tell more of a tail and put on a show than what really occurs at these things. Thankfully my hubby didn't want that. But I think that if you try to tell him no, that he might resent you for not trusting him. If it makes you feel comfortable discuss what is allowed with the stripper. Most strippers do not allow physical touch. And most strippers won't undress the guy.
2006-07-28 16:29:30 · answer #2 · answered by Mae V 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I got my husband to go on a 4 day fishing trip in the Bahamas for his bachelor party. But my man loves fishing more than other woman, thank goodness. I'd rather have him gone for a few days than having a stripper all over him. Plus, I got some peace and quiet so I could get some wedding stuff done.
2006-07-28 14:55:26 · answer #3 · answered by SweetPea 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I just got married in June.
My fiance's stupid, drug dealer cousin tried to throw him a bachelor party complete with strippers, booze and drugs. I did not even consider having a bachelorette party like that. So my hubby did not go.
I know that if he got drunk and cheated on me, his cousin would have just let it happen....and I didn't want to end up with some STD after our honeymoon.
2006-07-28 14:59:01 · answer #4 · answered by Courtney T 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The Bachelor party is up to the best man. If its a bacholette party you've gone into some alternative lifestyle here, you're on your own.
2006-07-28 15:34:31 · answer #5 · answered by revolvur2000 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How sad. My husband and I did not do bachelor and bachelorette parties because we respect each other. He declined on it before I did! He said they are completely disrespectful and unnecessary. I was so touched by that. The fact that your fiancee wants one, and a stripper too, says you better rethink that marriage.
2006-07-28 15:20:21 · answer #6 · answered by Rachel 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what people are not understanding is that this is not just about whether or not you trust him, but about how this activity contributes to the objectification and disrespect of women. my problem is not about worrying if he'll cheat, but that it is degrading to women, and i would be pissed if he saw this act as acceptable behavior toward women. ask him if he'd want to see his daughter or sister or you being treated how these women are treated, and maybe then he will see how wrong this is. if he doesn't see anything wrong at that point, i'd be concerned.
2006-07-29 00:16:45 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find a new fiance ! Unless your the kind who does'nt mind or even invites kinkiness into your life. Those desires just don't stop cause you say "I Do".
2006-07-28 15:13:14 · answer #8 · answered by the four faced master 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let him have a stripper. He's not marring her he's marring you,. My fiance asked me if he could have a stripper, I said it was o.k but no hookers.
2006-07-28 20:57:18 · answer #9 · answered by Deborah M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
let him have one. if you guys are getting married he obviously loves you and you should trust him. its no big deal and really its mostly for all the other guys anyway. trust me, theyll be more into it than he will!
2006-07-28 15:08:48 · answer #10 · answered by tulips♥77 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋