I need sex advice for my wedding night.....?

Question

I want too have sex with my partner and ths is going to be my first time and I would like it to be unforgettable so I would not like any answers that say "Go with the flow". I would love lots of advice and tips. Paragraphs would be splendid!

Answer 1

Ahhh I see you have moved your question from the preteen - teen section.... interesitng.

Answer 2

My first advice for men is always don't expect sex on the first night, especially if they've had a huge wedding. Planning and executing a large wedding is exhausting and the best sex will happen after she's rested. Then, when you DO have sex, take it SLOW... a guy is like a frying pan, turn him on and he's hot. A girl is like a crock pot, it takes a bit to warm her up and get her hot.

But for the girl, if she's insistent, I'd say find some time to take a nap. You need your rest girl! And I like a lot of what others have said as far as slow music, candles, and things like incense to build the mood. I really don't understand why people expect the "first time" to be the best because you always learn more and it always can get better. Still, it can be memorable.

Just being with the one you love, will make it memorable. The long gazing into each other's eyes, the gentle touches and soft caresses will send tingles throughout your body and you'll relish in every moment. For the guy? Well, you'll have to actually open up and discuss with him what he's wanting and expecting. Everyone is different and so are their expectations. If you start the relationship out with open, honest, and frank discussions... your marriage will be the better for it. No better time to start than right now.

I wish you the best.

Answer 3

Relax and dont be nervous. Keep the lights on and explore each others bodies. Dont be self conscious. Slowly ease into sex. You probably hear that it hurts the first time but dont worry. Its not that painful and after a minute or so it will go away. Expect some bleeding since you are a virgin. It wont be much though. Read the magazine Cosmpolitan. They have lots of advice about sex. Ask what your partner likes and if they dont know then try to find out. Experiment and explore. Have fun.

Answer 4

Okay,here it is. Think about it. Your wedding day is going to be a lot of people ,relatives hugging and kissing you wishing you well. The ceremony is going to be a bit long,and there might be a problem or two making you a nervous wreck. Then there's the reception. All that dancing,everybody and their mother making toasts and all the champagne. All this is going on and you're sweating like a horse in that dress.Now it's time to say your goodbyes to everyone and both of you get into the limo to go on your honeymoon. You get to the room and he carries you over the threshhold. Now,do you really feel like having sex after all that? Hell no! Take a good shower,and get a good nights sleep.
THEN,in the morning,you're both relaxed and have your energy,brush your teeth to get rid of morning breath and go for it!

Answer 5

First, you should wear something that would make him want to scream and when the time comes you should relax because there will be some discomfort if it is your first time. Also, it is good to prepare yourself by watching movies, reading books and asking people who are already married. There is nothing wrong or discusting if you watch something that is X-rated. Many people feel that people who watch these movies are nasty. If more people do things to spruce up their relationships then there probably would not be a high divorce rate. My mother always told me to do whatever is necessary to please my man and I have been with mine for 8 years and I try to come up with ways to make it more interesting. At first, I was not into porn or other graphic items but he showed me somethings that were helpful to us in our relationship. Recently, I dressed in sexy lingerie and I wrote a note for him and left it at the door so he would see it when he got in from work. When he came in, the letter told him that there was a surprise waiting for him in the bedroom and it said to knock before entering. I used nice colored lights which made the room look nice and sexy. Then I put my mattress on the floor and sorrounded it with candles at the head and the foot of the bed. Also, I had glasses and Liquor waiting on a tray. Lastly, I put in his favorite song from this R&B group called Mint Condition. So when he walked in I was sprwled across the mattress on the floor with sexy lingerie on and his favorite song playing. He never expected it and he said that he loved that I was spontaneous and sexy. All you have to do is think about what you think will turn him on. You can even play the naughty girl who has been bad and wear something short and skippy or black and that will definetely turn him on. Since you are just coming out of the starting gate he expects you to be goody two shoes and pristine. I think you should show him that he did not make the wrong decision by wanting to spend the rest of his life with you. Show him that you are the best that he has ever had (if he is not a virgin) and tell him to strap on and enjoy the ride.

Answer 6

okay so it's your first time. lubrication is a good investment (such as k y) because penetration will be easier. lingerie is good especially for your wedding night. maybe light some candles, music always eases the mood. also having a little champagne or alcohol of choice will let you relax some (a little, you want to remember) for your first time it is best if he is on top. it is always good to kiss him all the way down his stomach and kind of tease your way around his d@#$. honestly though i think that the two of you will be so happy and in love from your wedding that things will be very natural. this is the man that you want to spend your life with so i imagine that you are very comfortable around him.

Answer 7

My first piece of advice, is that if you haven't been to a gynecologist, go before your wedding. He/she will break your hymen and this will make your first time more pleasant for you. If you have already been, then you are off to a great start. Get some books and read them, like the Kama Sutra. This will give you some ideas you can act on.

Answer 8

Relax. The fact is that 9 out of 10 grooms are so drunk on their wedding night that they can't consummate the marriage anyway. You'll be safe until the next day.

Answer 9

The most important advice I can give you is to relax.Don't be nervous.Dim the lights and light some scented candles.Maybe a bottle of bubbly to ease your tensions,and some romantic music in the background.

Answer 10

the key is to relax and go slow. love making between two people is beautiful kind of like playing music. it starts out slow and mellow then builds. don't put too much pressure on each other. take you time and explore your bodies. play some music, dance, do LOTS of foreplay and the rest will come natural....sorry no pun attended. :)

Answer 11

i had our room set up with roses all over, chocolate covered cherries, candles, champagne, and a hot tub all filled up with bubbles and rose petals. we soaked drank fed each other and gave massages.

put on some nice music. make it last a really long time. if your like me, you'll enjoy every inch of her body, take turns giving oral, go slow and try different positions, talk to her ask what she wants/likes, and if she likes what youre doing. and do it a couple times, hey its your wedding. its all downhill now