Singles & Dating - 21 October 2007

My bf and I got into a big fight last night, and he broke up with me this morning. The fight was about a stupid issue, but it was both of our faults. Anyway, he said he loves me, cares about me a lot, and that I'm the girl of his dreams. Even so, he can't be in this relationship. However, he told me this morning that we should talk tomorrow. I just received the following e-mail from him:

"I don't think that we should talk tomorrow. I think it is best if we just stay away from each other for a while."


What does this mean? Is there any hope for us to get back together?

2007-10-21 15:14:51 · 17 answers · asked by skichamonix515 3

what is the most romantic thing you have ever done or had done for you?

2007-10-21 15:12:03 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous

I went to my boyfriends house the other day for a BBQ that he and his roomate were throwing. There was this one girl that came up in the house like she knew her way around way too much. She went into the kitchen with my boyfriend for a while alone and he didnt introduce us. What does this seem like to you? What would you do?

2007-10-21 15:12:00 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

this girl that i really like talks to me all the time but just because we are good friends. i no this because she told me she likes my best guy friend. the best guy friend is already in another relationship though. I am in a f*** buddy relationship with the girl who likes my best friend's best friend. How do i resolve this and get with the girl

2007-10-21 15:08:43 · 4 answers · asked by italianice765 1

Ok. So me and my girlfriend both went to a school dance this last week. She said for the first hour of the dance she wants to dance with her friends and such and she'll meet up with me later. So I'm thinking ok its kinda weird, but i respect that, she can have her space. But 15 minutes into the dance i get about 3 people telling me shes looking for me. And i end up dancing with her the entire night. Now this whole split up the time thing between friends and dates is not new to her. She did this to her last boyfriend. Why would she make the exception for me?

2007-10-21 14:54:53 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

they don't like em 'cause of his race.
his age (2 yrs difference)
and he doesn't go to college yet (should be freshman)

and i like him, but don't know if i should continue dating him because my parents ..or rather my mom thinks he's a loser for the above reasons.

2007-10-21 14:43:02 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

Hey everyone. I've started attending a new church about a month ago. There is a cute girl there that I know is single and I've heard she is looking for a guy as well. Being the new guy there, what would be the best way for me to get to ask her out on a date without it being awkward?

2007-10-21 14:42:02 · 2 answers · asked by hausedawg 1

what if u have acne but its not bright red but when u put foundation on it looks better but not completely gone is that sumtin a guy would hate 4 his gf 2 have and y??? and what should i say 2 my crushes at a party on saturday that i just met last night but didnt get introduced i dont even no there names what do i say 2 them??? and what a good convo starter??? sry tons of ?s but thx 4 the help

2007-10-21 14:37:57 · 10 answers · asked by ♥twilight series ADDICT♥ 1

I've really like this guy but he lies to me all the time? what to do? he lies about little things that don't matter at all, and he doesn't just lie to me, either. should i even bother?

2007-10-21 14:33:51 · 27 answers · asked by Lorraine Way 2

I just broke up with my boyfriend... mainly because he ignored me and made excuses not to call me...and when I broke up with him he really didnt care. I don't know why but I want him back and I wish I hadn't of broken up with him but I don't know why I would want him back. He is a skater and he cares more about skating then me. I really love him and want him back but should I get back together with him or forget about him?

2007-10-21 14:33:48 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

Hi everyone, please help me, tell me what you think:

I was with my ex for almost a year and he broke up with me, lied to me, then mistreated me and I finally found out he had someone else..

I was feeling bad for so long and desperate for love. Not desperate for a boyfriend but for falling in love again and getting over my ex.

my ex was the hottest guy I've ever seen , he was also the man of my dreams, only problem: he was a jerk and a**hole


so I found this other guy online and hit on him (something I rarely do)

the other guy is not bad at all he looks good (not as hot as my ex) and he's a very nice man (BUT HE'S NOT EXACTLY WHAT I DREAMT OF)

plus, even though I'm desperate for love, I still don't feel ready to get attached and I want to have more guys before I find the one that will never hurt me or leave me.

I went out with him(first date) and it was awesome .. but I can't help but think the man of my dreams is not this guy.
should I give him a chance?

2007-10-21 14:28:26 · 23 answers · asked by leave me alone 1

I was grabbing dinner today when I overheard a girl from my history lecture class whisper to another girl that I was cute. Since she was looking in my direction and no one else was with me when I walked by, I assume she was talking about me.

I think she's pretty hot too. Should I make a move? Wonder if I should say something like "So you think I'm cute, huh?" Would it be embarrassing if I told her that I overheard her?

2007-10-21 14:26:02 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

I had asked previously in my last question "Do I have a chance in getting back with my ex-girlfriend?" and got several great reponses, thank you to those who did. But, I am curious what i should do, and where I stand....I am just unsure how to act around my ex...even though i try to play it cool and act like i did before we went out. I am also unsure if i'm reading signs correctly if she still likes me....please help? and feel free to ask questions if that can help you decide what I should do.

2007-10-21 14:26:01 · 15 answers · asked by Prudential Intern 1

Ok so i like this boy and he likes me 2 ( i just found it out today) I'm so happy likes me!!! (my friend used to go out with him but that was like 6 weeks ago and i dont hink she likes him anymore.) but now that we both no that we like each other what do i do....... I dont ask boys out .... do you think he'll ask me out. but what if my friend gets mad ( i dont think she likes him though so..??) i've got so much on my mind help me .... what do i do next??!!??

2007-10-21 14:24:35 · 6 answers · asked by Emilyy ♫ (: 2

Note, I had a crush on him before he was my boss. Basically, we're both in the military, he outranks me, and he's 17 years older than me! What's wrong with me? Why can't I like guys that are attainable for me!

2007-10-21 14:23:35 · 3 answers · asked by Liesel 5

i can get when im alone and thinking about her but for some reason i cant keep one when im around her im worried because i love her so much and i want to satisfy her
this is my last stop before the doctor

ill try anything especially diet
thank you for any help

2007-10-21 14:19:53 · 9 answers · asked by matman 1

2007-10-21 14:14:18 · 1 answers · asked by Count DiMera 2

Ok I have this guy friend(more of an aquantance) and I was wondering if he likes me...I've never seen him talk to any other girl before and I don't think he has any girl friends, so I think he talks to me the most out of the whole girl population....anyways, in 1 of the 2 classes that we have together, I sometimes see him staring at me and when I look at him, he shifts his eyes....also, once I got bored so I started puffing out my cheeks and I looked over and he was doing the exact same thing as me...oh and in our other class, he sits infront of me and he always puts his head back and rests it on my pencil case, and a couple days ago, my best friend and I were arguing about recycling and so I asked him if he recycled(even though I knew he didn't) and all he said was "maybe"...I'm leaning towards that he likes me, but I don't want to be wrong considering that we don't talk all that much and he doesn't pay a lot of attention to me...so what do you think???

2007-10-21 14:13:58 · 19 answers · asked by problem_girl 3

i personally am sick of those. its awkward, its like a job interview and its the same thing over and over. its like you're interviewing whether you like each other or not..dinner and a movie....cant ppl come up with something different? also its ridiculous how men always are expected to pay...they're not made of money, although its a gentleman thing to do, which i realize. and then women ''reach for the purse'' its so fake. dont you think guys know? lol
anyway, what is your opinion??

2007-10-21 14:11:38 · 15 answers · asked by curtismayfield? 2

When I was about 5 or 6, I was in my bedroom watching t.v. and this family friend's son comes in my room. He pins me to my bed and is basically on top of me, before I knew it his tonge was almost in my mouth. I was trying to fidget out of arms as he had me pinned to the bed. Is this sexual harassment or rape?

2007-10-21 14:05:10 · 13 answers · asked by cheeze 2

ok, so lately i have been wearing a fedora and a waist vest jacket combo with jeans or shorts and tees, and stuff. or with a dress, and i was just wondering if guys find fedoras on a girl attractive if it looks good on her. and if she wears a vest with it, or alone. what do you think? please telll me!!!

2007-10-21 13:58:59 · 12 answers · asked by sunny 4

I just found a new boyfriend almost two months ago. He seems like a very nice person. He says he really likes me, he calls me every single night and we talk for hours. He is funny, sweet, romantic and charming. He always asks me to tell him everything that's happening in my life and that he is the one I'm supposed to look to for support. I'm in college now and if I don't go to school one day for some reason he get upset and says I'm joking with my life; this kinda shows me that he actually cares about me. He introduced me to all his close friends even the ones that live far away. I really like him but with all men he has problems. 1. He can't really dress i.e. he dresses really simply but when we are going out he doesn't even try to go a little extra with it. 2. He is not really educated - he graduated from high school but that's where it ended as he plays professional soccer now. He doesn't speak with correct grammar and sometimes my friends laugh. Do you think I should stay with him?

2007-10-21 13:58:37 · 56 answers · asked by Young,Sexy&Educated 3

Okay so i like this guy , and yes he knows i do . I got my friend to ask him if he had a girlfriend and he said yea . Then he goes why? Then my friend told him cuz one of my friends likes you ... then he goes who? Then she asked me if she could tell him ..and i said sure.. so she did and then he smiled..but i took off cuz i was embarresd [sorry for spelling ] so then the few days , i would find him staring at me , and things like that. So im pretty sure he likes me ..and i found who his gf is well she isnt nuthin special ..lol ...im sorry that was rude... but i really like him ...how do win him over ?? i want him to be mine...o and him and that girl have only been going out for a month .. thats not long...
so plz help me ... how do i get him to be mine?
plz give me some advice . thanxxx [=

P/S
Please no rude comments ,or something stupid like your grammar sucks. Well people Im in a hurry so please no smart *** comments will be necessary .also i will not move on .i really like him

2007-10-21 13:57:01 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-10-21 13:55:21 · 2 answers · asked by Elise 1

Please, only real answers.

Tonight, I almost cried in the subway station and as I was walking home. Lately, it hurts to see happy couples in love, and babies. I'm still healing from a series of breakups. Just casual dating. One almost got serious, but I put an end to it when I discovered the guy was basically a player. The other, well, I just got tired of all his phone calls and empty promises--all talk and no action. So, I put myself on a much needed break from dating. Now I feel horrible whenever I come home from teaching, hanging out with friends, or a gig. Prayer, reading, meditation, and dvds usu. help. But not tonight. I'm just so sad.

This is so weird. Usu. I'm the one helping other people. Now I'm the one who needs the help of someone with a heart. I just got finished admitting to another Y/A member that one of my biggest fears is that I'm going to die in my apartment alone and no one will figure it out until they miss me at school or I miss a gig. :) Help me.

2007-10-21 13:49:27 · 7 answers · asked by Indi 4

If you once loved and lost. Or if you reached a fork in the road of life and had to choose between two good people. Do you think it is possible to get a second chance at love with that person? Or is it too late, and looking back will only turn you to a pillar of salt?

2007-10-21 13:48:24 · 2 answers · asked by desperatehw 7

ok theree is this guy (of course). and we were "talkin" earlier this year then we stopped then we tried again but he told me he couldnt be with me cuz he didnt wanna hurt me and i could do better. ((he also was like "ima regret forever i couldnt be man enough for u)). so now...its sumthin about him that i cant let go. so i tried talkin to him again. and i told him how i felt. and he said sumthin about when we were talkin before we went on seperate pages. and so i asked him did he care for me..he asked me what did i think. i said no he told me that was a negative..but he didnt look at me the whole time...so yesterday he told me he was gonna call me so we could talk and i waited up for him but he never called. i texted him like 4 times and he replied once...so i asked him..was i wastin my time carin for him and he texted back "idk" so i asked him y..and he didnt reply....i care for him so much but im about to just say **** u..and move on.

2007-10-21 13:41:35 · 24 answers · asked by LuvaBaby08 1

well, Theres this Brazilian girl in my class who I like. I spoke to her a couple of times and I see her in the library every week. I told her how I wanted to go to Brazil and how my culture(Haitian) loves brazilians..Every time she see's me in the library she always smiles at me but Im not sure what I should do next. Im pretty sure that she knows I have a crush on her becuase of the way she looks at me. I really want this girl, so give me some advice

2007-10-21 13:39:01 · 13 answers · asked by ESJ 2

please ive never had one
can you people tell me how to get one

2007-10-21 13:37:40 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm 15 i was dating someone who is 17, and for a while i wasnt sure how much i even liked him and i figured i wouldn't be that upset if it didnt work out. Well i started to really like him and he did in a way where hes like you know how much i like you and all that and i want you to hang out with me and us to be friends. I dont know but it made me so upset i havent been eating and i feel really horrible what do i do?

2007-10-21 13:36:27 · 6 answers · asked by Cara d. 2