Singles & Dating - 21 October 2007

May sound like a rhetorical question, but its not. I want to know why -- and how to get back into having a normal friendship with him.

Any tips?

2007-10-21 13:30:59 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

split with the gf, still love her but struggling! is a fresh start away from the memories what i need?

2007-10-21 13:29:23 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous

I been with my boyfriend for 8 months and we are in love. but my boyfriend before him cheated on me with 5 girls so I have serious trust issues. I always accuse my boyfriend of cheating and that makes him really mad. he has a short temper an it hurts him and upsets him when I accuse him of cheating so today we had a huge fight because of that and he told me that it was over, he told me to never call him and to forget his number and never talk to him since I have an attitude and cant trust him. I admit I have been pushing him away with my drama but now I’m sad because I love him and I know a lot of girls want him so I don’t know if he will talk to me or find someone else because this happened an hour ago and he hasn’t called me yet. what should I do I’m sitting here crying please help. And when I called him he said that he will call me back and talk to me “whenever” and just hung up before I could say anything.

2007-10-21 13:23:49 · 42 answers · asked by Anonymous

Can you really meet someone nice and genuine via the net.
is it worth while?
what are the pros and cons?
Have you experianced this?
what are some of internet dating sites.

2007-10-21 13:20:58 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

I met a great guy online over a year ago and developed a great frienship and chemistry until things became physical during this past summer. We have acknowledged each others feelings and do have intentions to settlle down and not into playing games. I recently met his parents a few weeks ago. He has huge responsibilities on his shoulders: father diagnosed with 2 different cancers and starting chemo in a couple of weeks; he is the sole financial provider in his household; he attends college part-time. He always calls or comes to me if he needs to take a load off his chest and is also very close to his family. He had not called me in th past week. What I need advice on and true guidance for, I do not want any scenes from "Fatal Attraction" and I am not the "jealous" woman because anger is such a waste of energy and I do believe giving someone space when they need it. I've fallen. How do I still try to call, email, or text him on how he is without "appearing" desperate"?

2007-10-21 13:16:57 · 2 answers · asked by nattydreddey 2

okay so theres this cute guy whos a grade ahead of me. i see him every other day right b4 5th period and during 5th period...he looks at me and i look at him and sometimes he'll poke his head into our classroom and look at me and then start talking to someone in our class...hes really cute and just won homecoming prince and now hes a big target for other girls....should i even bother with him? and if i should how can i talk to him or get him to talk to me??? HELP! im really shy/ self concious when it comes to hott guys that i dont know...he seems like hes interested in me but do you think its enough to even bother? i left a post on his wall the other day and he didnt respond to me but responded to other people... does this mean he doesnt like me or maybe its cuz he doesnt realize that thats me im really confused what do you think i should do...or maybe its cuz i dont acutally know him! but i want to! PLEASE HELP!

2007-10-21 13:14:55 · 1 answers · asked by xoxitzhanna 2

do guys play little games like some girls do, or is it true that they're more straight forward. for example, if you think a guy likes you and you send him a message/email, would he wait a few days to message back to not seem desprate or would he write back immediatly each time?(all other signs points to he likes you)is it kinda like that wait a few days to call thing?

If a guy is intrested in a girl he thinks is out of his leauge, how will he act if he thinks she might like him but isnt sure?

2007-10-21 13:07:47 · 5 answers · asked by 47skittles 3

I'm just curious, with all the "most beautiful" lists coming out and filled with older actors, how many women / men would date someone older than themselves? How old are you, and how old would you be willing to go? Why would you be attracted to them?

2007-10-21 13:01:04 · 4 answers · asked by voidedlives 3

What's the sweetest thing a guy has ever done for you?

2007-10-21 12:36:12 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-10-21 12:31:45 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

Omg i saw a girl i really liked the other day and she was so hot it was untrue and i was looking at her and i went all red and my heart started beating fast and for the last 3 days i have been getting the same sensation of goosebumps and my heart beating fast and it feels really good.Is it an orgasm i thought you could only get an orgasm during sex?

2007-10-21 12:28:11 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

ok so i like this guy and i think he migh tlike me. I don't want to tel him i like him becaus ei know him well enough to know that if he likes me back he will make the first move. the reason i know this is because last year he liked my best friend and he waited till like 3-4 months after he met her to ask her out or tell her he liked her. . what do these signs mean?
1~he puts his arm around me and says things like so how's 8:00 tonight i'll pick you up? adn he does this so everyone in the halls can see iit
2~When we go to foot ball games or anything outside he is always adking me if he need to warm me up or if i need to wear his jacket he even asks this while we are in a classroom.
3~He likes to take my shoes, pencils, books, ect. and eith wear them or hide them.
4~in the class we have together he's always hangin ouround me and lets me copy answers that i don't already have.
5~ he had a neigbor with the same name as me and he is always saying how much she adn i are alike cont

2007-10-21 12:02:41 · 11 answers · asked by sammywammy 2

Or should i wait until i'm 40.

2007-10-21 11:57:35 · 2 answers · asked by Kelly 3

how can i tell if he likes me when i wont get 2 c him unless i go 2 like another football game??? how can i do this i mean i met him last night and i think he kinda likes me but i wont get 2 c him that much??? but im pretty positive ill c him at this party on saturday o and also how can i tell my friend that im sry 4 joking around w/ him so much??? cuz i kinda think he hates me but idk know plz answer these question and thx 4 the help

2007-10-21 11:53:46 · 5 answers · asked by ♥twilight series ADDICT♥ 1

2007-10-21 11:52:57 · 6 answers · asked by boo 1

This guy i'm dating is SO boring during 4play! I call myself showing him some pointers.. but he didn't get it.. we didn't make it past that bc I went to sleep.. Lord forbid he is worse in bed.... But he just doesn't seem to listen to my likes and dislikes.. what should I say to him?

2007-10-21 11:51:43 · 32 answers · asked by sole_survivor 3

it seems like lately my boyfriend and i have been fighting over stupid stuff and he just gets irritated with everything i do. im starting to feel like i cant do anything right and wondering why he is still with me. so i was just wondering if all relationships experience this kind of thing at points...thanks

2007-10-21 11:46:54 · 26 answers · asked by jace 1

would you go out with him and lose your virginity to him? there is this girl i like that really seems to want to do it with her friend, because he is apparently nice to her or something.....is she desperate or a hoe? or is this normal?

2007-10-21 11:44:29 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous

i dont want to snog (french kiss) but i dont want it to be a little peck what would come after that ??? and if so how do you do it?????

2007-10-21 11:39:04 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

He has had the same number for 5 years. Three months ago he was talking and texting 2 other girls. I found a text from 1 of them saying, "I'm at your buddies house. Y dont U C U M c ME?" I confronted him and he admitted it was one of them and that he went to see her after getting the message. I broke up with him. He admitted that he screwed up and we got back together after he told that girl off in front of me and the other girl off in front of me through a text message. So now 3 months later the one who he was text messageing and told her off through text message is calling and texting him again. The first time I ansered the phone and she hung up. Then last night she called again. He answered and told her, "Dont fu ck*ng call or text again." She text back right away, "u @sshole, what the f* ck?" He thought that she got the point but said he would change his # if she called again and she did but he wont. Is it 2 much 2 ask him to change his number?

2007-10-21 11:38:05 · 1 answers · asked by juniper555 5

My bf of 6 months and I recently broke up (we're both 25) because we were starting to get pretty serious and he decided he didn't want to be in a serious relationship. He still wanted to hang out, etc but said he didn't want to lead me on. I saw him out with a girl who is a friend (they are not dating, i know that for sure) and he called me and invited me to dinner with them, I couldnt' go, and he said he'd call me later. Well that was 2 weeks ago and i haven't heard from him since. This is the longest we've EVER gone without talking... even when we weren't together or on a break or something, he would still call me or text me every day or so.

I know he doesn't want a relationship, but I do miss him and his friendship. Should i call him or text him with a little hello, or has he moved on completely and doesn't want me in his life? It kind of hurts because we had a good friendship. Should i give him his space and leave the ball in his court? I don't want to look clingy or needy.

2007-10-21 11:37:24 · 23 answers · asked by Leah 3

2007-10-21 11:35:59 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

He has had the same number for 5 years. Three months ago he was talking and texting 2 other girls. I found a text from 1 of them saying, "I'm at your buddies house. Y dont U C U M c ME?" I confronted him and he admitted it was one of them and that he went to see her after getting the message. I broke up with him. He admitted that he screwed up and we got back together after he told that girl off in front of me and the other girl off in front of me through a text message. So now 3 months later the one who he was text messageing and told her off through text message is calling and texting him again. The first time I ansered the phone and she hung up. Then last night she called again. He answered and told her, "Dont fu ck*ng call or text again." She text back right away, "u @sshole, what the f* ck?" He thought that she got the point but said he would change his # if she called again and she did but he wont. Is it 2 much 2 ask him to change his number?

2007-10-21 11:32:42 · 1 answers · asked by juniper555 5

What do you think is husband, wife, or life partner material. What would make the playboy or playgirl in you turn in your playing card and become a one woman man or one man woman. (One woman, woman/One man, man) Just curious.

2007-10-21 11:26:00 · 4 answers · asked by ♥♥Sweet Mickey♥♥ 3

I am in class with a male friend (I'm not sure he's a friend anymore after all this). We have been on friendly terms for over a year now. But a few months ago he made a move on me which I was not wanting. I was so mad because I thought that I was being played by this whole "friendship" thing. Now he turned all cold on me in class. He ignores me sometimes. He used to say goodby after class, now he just leaves without a word. He cuts conversations short with me and he stopped responding to my e-mails a long time ago. I think I was more into him than he was to me in the beginning, but I didn't ask him to make advances. I'm trying not to let his behavior get to me. I want to be friendly and "forget the whole thing" for the sake of being in class with him. But it really hurts sometimes. Was he mad because I didn't satisfy his sexual needs? Is he trying to hurt me on purpose? I thought of leaving the class not to deal with this anymore.

2007-10-21 11:23:50 · 5 answers · asked by sugar1973 2

1) i met his friend at a party then i met him thro his friend

2) we flirt all the time and tho we go to diff schools and just met we always have something to talk about and we get a long great

3) we planned on hooking up but he got a girlfriend but he was still okay with hooking up

4) for 2 weeks he was okay with cheating and now the day be4 we were planning on hooking up he diesnt want to cheat

5) tho im young i am in love with him he is all i think about no other guy compares

6) what do i do i tried to get over him, tried to get them to break up, i tried everything so what can i do?

7) i told him how i felt and he was like im sorry but i have a gf

2007-10-21 11:22:31 · 3 answers · asked by Kristen Isabelle 1

What type of answer are you looking for when you ask that?

2007-10-21 11:09:18 · 14 answers · asked by david 4

One of my colleagues just the other day said I would not like Holland, (to study for my PhD), " because the rents are all more than $300". I'm sure he thinks he is so witty. Oh, such humor. Ha ha.

What I think would be funny is him lying in a gutter with a bruise on the back of his head. My fist in his foul mouth would be even more funny.

Yet, they blame me when I think it is funny if someone trips or bumps their head.

2007-10-21 11:07:03 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

Finally, here's how:

1. Find a complete stranger.
2. Reveal to each other intimate details about your lives for half an hour.
3. Stare deeply into each other’s eyes without talking for four minutes.

York psychologist, Professor Arthur Arun, studeied why people fall in love.
He asked his subjects to carry out the above 3 steps and found that many of his couples felt deeply attracted after the 34 minute experiment. Two of his subjects later got married.

Wow!
"1-2-3, oh, that's how elementary it's gonna be
C'mon, let's fall in love, it's easy
Like takin' candy from a baby!"

2007-10-21 11:06:52 · 13 answers · asked by Bad Kitty! 7

2007-10-21 10:55:01 · 9 answers · asked by banana pudding 1