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would you go out with him and lose your virginity to him? there is this girl i like that really seems to want to do it with her friend, because he is apparently nice to her or something.....is she desperate or a hoe? or is this normal?

2007-10-21 11:44:29 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

26 answers

aaaaaah hell... Youth is waisted on the young.


When you get older you will realize that this is suuuuuuuuch a stupid thing to worry about.

2007-10-21 11:47:39 · answer #1 · answered by USMCstingray 7 · 2 1

I was in that situation... Fortunately I didn't lose my virginity to those guys at I hook up with . I am very happy with that. But I did get fooled and my feelings were crushed very deeply, that I was scared to let someone else in. My suggestion to your friend is..... Be very careful. Go with your gut, if you feel its meant to be than maybe it is. If you don't feel a good feeling don't do it because you'll end up regretting it later. Most guys are tricky, and girls have attend to fall for their trickiness, and end up getting hurt. Your friend could be wanting to do this because she feels a very good connection between him and her and she feels if she does it with him she wont feel obligated to do it with a guy that just wants to do it with a girl that is "fresh". Yes I believe it is normal. Most girl would like to lose it to someone very close to them. But...... it could be a bad thing, but it could also be a very good thing. I don't think she should be with him just because he is "nice" to her. I think she should put some real thought into it and take out the good things, sort them out and make her decision whether its the right for her or not. Also since he has been with other people I highly suggest she make him wear a condom. if she goes there. Another thing if she goes there with or without a condom I suggest she go to planned parenthood and get checked. Just to be safe its one of the smartest thing to do when you start having intercourse.

2007-10-21 19:09:08 · answer #2 · answered by Just Here To Help 1 · 1 0

Sex is so overated. I mean its fantastic and all, but if you are going to lose it, dont lose it to some loser that has had alot of ckicks so he says. Alls he will do is compare you to the others. he might actually make yoyur first time a really bad memory. Wait until you find somebody that you have had a long relationship with or even until you get married. Sex is not a statis quo thing.

2007-10-21 19:15:30 · answer #3 · answered by pumper 4 · 1 0

If there is a big age difference, 3-5 yrs, I'd recommend NO! There's something about us guy's that wants to be the first. Even if we have no real emotional ties. Girls on the other hand seem to get very emotionally attached to there 1st.

2007-10-21 18:53:42 · answer #4 · answered by david 4 · 1 0

no. that girl is desperate. i would nnnnnnnnnnnneeeeeeeevvvvvvvvvveeeeeeeeerrrrrrr go out with a guy and lose my virginity over, especially since he is a slut and a bastard. just because that girl spent a few days with him dont mean a thing. i know, because in movies i seen how men we all nice to women until the woman agreed to give her virginity to him. it turned out bloody.

2007-10-21 18:50:39 · answer #5 · answered by Lil W 2 · 0 0

I don't think she's either. I think she may have been hurt by a lot of guys in the past and here is a guy that finally treats her like a princess (regardless of his past). Plus, he's her friend also. I'm not saying it's the right thing to do, but I can see where she's coming from.

2007-10-21 18:49:14 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1 0

I am still a virgin and I don't take losing it very lightly. I plan on getting married before I do it, but if (BIG IF) I decide to lose my virginity before I am married it will be because I am in love with him and I know that he is in love with me. It has to be more than "He is nice to me." and more than "I like him," or "He is hot." Your friend could be setting herself up, especially since he has been with a lot of women. But the decision his her choice, not mine.

I really hope she makes the right decision in the end and please "Wrap it up" girlfriend.

Ask yourself this question.
http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=AhkZC_CGLf05oCpGqrA3qEPsy6IX;_ylv=3?qid=20071021152600AAdgeYm

2007-10-21 18:52:44 · answer #7 · answered by ♥♥Sweet Mickey♥♥ 3 · 0 0

It's easy to lose your virginity. Getting rid of some STD's is impossible. Imagine having to worry about passing an std on to your children. What if you were even afraid to even touch your kids because you wanted to lose your virginity to some sleeze.

2007-10-21 18:49:38 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

No, don't rush into it. When you meet the right guy you'll be glad you waited. See the movie: the 40 year old virgin: lots of laughs but some serious discussion about sex/virginity.
Make sure the one you choose to be your first is sensitive, caring, unselfish(although most of them seen to be gay, ha ha).

2007-10-21 18:50:14 · answer #9 · answered by thom t 6 · 0 0

Popularity is growing in keeping virginity until marriage. Think about it,that's the one thing you could share with your new husband that no one else can. Double the pleasure in finding a mate that is pure as well.

2007-10-21 18:49:56 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

I wouldn't, and I would advise her not to as well. Especially if it's just because he's nice and seems to care about her...seems like shes not getting some type of emotional need met.

2007-10-21 18:48:35 · answer #11 · answered by Lyndsey 1 · 0 0

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