I’m sitting here crying please help.?

Question

I been with my boyfriend for 8 months and we are in love. but my boyfriend before him cheated on me with 5 girls so I have serious trust issues. I always accuse my boyfriend of cheating and that makes him really mad. he has a short temper an it hurts him and upsets him when I accuse him of cheating so today we had a huge fight because of that and he told me that it was over, he told me to never call him and to forget his number and never talk to him since I have an attitude and cant trust him. I admit I have been pushing him away with my drama but now I’m sad because I love him and I know a lot of girls want him so I don’t know if he will talk to me or find someone else because this happened an hour ago and he hasn’t called me yet. what should I do I’m sitting here crying please help. And when I called him he said that he will call me back and talk to me “whenever” and just hung up before I could say anything.

my boyfriend never cheated, my ex did! so that’s why I don’t trust my boyfriend because of what happened with my ex and that’s why he so upset.

Answer 1

It sounds like you need to give him a day or so anyway.

Just make it clear you're sorry and wrong and won't do it again. (That's if you're ready to trust him and not keep accusing him. If you aren't ready to do that, you need to let him go, no matter how it hurts.)

Answer 2

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Answer 3

Since most of the people are not understanding what you are saying, ignore them if they do not make sense.

Your ex is the one who cheated, it still has effect on you. You need to work that out before you try for another relationship. Any other relationships you get into will have a similar effect on you, even if you don't say anything to the guy, you would still be thinking it. Do NOT let that thought process into your relationships. It will slowly kill you,and your relationship.

This new ex is done for now, let it go. Sounds callous I know, but you need to let it go. Time will tell. He feels untrusted right now, he didn't deserve the distrust, he may feel a little resentful for the distrust.

Just as gaining trust back, feeling that you are not trusted takes time to achieve.

You really need to surround yourself with the best of friends. Occupy your time and energy into yourself. Learn how to trust again, trust yourself in knowing that you are good enough to have someone you can trust. You deserve someone you can trust. You must trust again before you seriously think about getting into another relationship. You must do it this way to give your relationship a descent chance.

Good Luck ! ! Have Fun ! !

Answer 4

It's hard to trust someone when people in the past have disrespected out trust. If we spend our time comparing new people we meet to people in our past we will never get to know those that are new for who they really are.

Your boyfriend has every right to be frustrated and angry, and my guess is that you know that. But don't give up. He needs some time to cool off and you need some time to put things into perspective. Give it a couple of days.

Then when you're mind is more clear go to him (or write a letter). Start by telling him "I am sorry." Then tell him things that make him special to you (why you love him). Then pledge to him that you are wiling to make a change, and you want another chance. Tell him the ways it will be different.

Now the hard part. You have to keep telling yourself that your fears of him cheating are not justified, and he did nothing to cause you to mistrust him. Don't give in to irrational fears. It won't be easy but you can do it. Hang in there and remind yourself who he is and not who someone else was.

Answer 5

First thing you need to do is back off. It sounds a little harsh but he won't respect you if you keep calling. Second, you need to work on your trust issues. Not all men are dogs but you need to understand that people will mess up. You have no real reason for thinking your ex is cheating so just breathe. Maybe you should try being single for a while. If you love yourself and him as much as it seems then you need the time to regroup before plunging into another relationship. Bottom line stop crying, you'll just get red and puffy eyes and it won't solve a thing. Good luck:)

Answer 6

If he said he would call you back, that’s a good sign.

I sorry you had bad relationships before, but you shouldn’t compare your current one to your former ones. That will only make your current boyfriend upset. Hopefully he’s not cheating on you. Are there any clues to make you believe that he is seeing someone else?

please stop crying, things will work out for the better.

Give yourself some time to think about your relationship, the good and the bad parts. And give him time to miss u.

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Good Luck

Answer 7

I think you should not do anything for the moment coz your're guy seemed to have reached his patience limit and not too keen on hearing from you...yet. Just be cool about it and give him a bit of time to cool off and think things over, after all as you've said you're the one who's always accusing of him of being unfaithful and you have an attitude and trust issue. So it' s better if you give him space and time and in he meantime don't dwell too much on the the break up and take deep breath yourself and think things through.

Answer 8

You really need to try an let go of this guy its obvious its not good the two of you together not all people are compatable or connect. I feel if you debate alot an dont get on its time to leave him alone cos all you will do is make your life more miserable.. To be strong an move on an find your true soul mate an really make your life happier for you.. I know what its like cos Ive been living with a man that Im not connected too an learnt alot from it.. take it from me let go an be happy you cant make people want or love you..

Answer 9

you cant blame ur current bf for the mistakes ur ex did. I should know. Whta u need to do is find a way of talking to him. Call him, email him, im him, write him a poem, leave a note in his locker. Just find a way to apologize. And if u keep accusing hom of cheating, just make sure ur 155% positive before bringing it out in the open or else u run the chance of losing him again. Remember, there are decent guys out there. You just need to trust your heart.

Answer 10

He cheated 5 times in eight months!!!!!!! What stronger signs do you need to see that this guy is not for you! You definitely deserve much better than that. Instead of sitting and crying, go out, have fun and see what you are really missing. Life is too short to settle for second best. Trust me, people do not change. Learnt that the hard way. Men are like stamps, the more you spit on them, the more they stick!!!

Answer 11

First I would give him time to cool off. Second you need to realize that you can't distrust someone until they give you a reason to. Just because your first boyfriend was a complete jerk, doesn't mean that the next guy is going to be the same way. Give a little time and then try and talk to him and explain your trust issues. Than tell him that you are willing to try and be better about things because you believe he's not like that and you want to make things work.