May sound like a rhetorical question, but its not. I want to know why -- and how to get back into having a normal friendship with him.
Any tips?
2007-10-21 13:30:59 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well, I think it's because it is sort of ackward since you guys had like a thing before and now you're like trying to talk to him like a normal person. It took like a year for my ex boyfriend and I to actually have a normal relationship. Maybe you should just talk to him and tell him that you just want to be friends and you just want everything to be normal. Just talk to him and make sure he knows that you just want things to be normal. :]
2007-10-23 07:52:55 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-05-06 06:05:54 · answer #2 · answered by Wallace 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its about letting go of hope, hope for a future, hope for the present, and hope for him to fix past mistakes. Also letting go of the fantasy is a big one to. Last, but not least, is letting go of your boundries. If you want to make him a friend, if you need to make him a friend, realize that friendship isn't about good times. Its about the fight, the fight to understand him and yourself. So be honest with the boy about the way you feel, and hopfully he'll be honest back, and THRU that you'll be able to have a friendship. You can't go back to things being light and happy, you've gone beyond that, now your forced to have to be (sorry for the pun) brutally honest. I did this and made the best relationship I ever had in my life.... just it isn't your fault if he can't take the honesty, just make sure its strait from that heart!
2007-10-22 08:26:07 · answer #3 · answered by Brutal Honesty 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋