Singles & Dating - 21 October 2007

I'm going on a 2nd date with a guy, he's left it to me to pick what to do and i would like to do something a bit more interesting. Trouble is, it's on a Monday night. Any ideas?

2007-10-21 07:27:03 · 6 answers · asked by mstar 2

This guy i've dated twice spotted me at the homecoming football game. We were once really close, but not any more. At the game he asked me to be his date, so i said yes. he had asked why i had beed ignoring him. i said that i had sent several e-mails but he had never replied. it turns out that i had been sending messages to the wrong address. but he has always had my correct address, but had never bothered to try and contact me. so after the game we said our good byes. a couple days later i sent an e mail. he didn't reply. i talked to my friend a few days after that. it turns out that she was also at the game, but had been sitting in a different section. she told me that the guy had asked her to be her date at the game but she said no, because of their age difference. about a week later i called him to wish him a happy birthday. he said he really appreciated that i remembered his birthday and he was glad i called.so the question remains:Did he just want to have a little fun that night?

2007-10-21 07:26:57 · 5 answers · asked by Sunshine 3

This question is mainly for girls to answer but for guys as well. There is this girl i like and she just broke up with her boyfriend. I think she kind of likes me. How do i ask her out.

2007-10-21 07:24:34 · 8 answers · asked by Kenshin 3

I am an alcoholic in recovery with 3 yrs sober in Feb. My fiance and I are great but she is a bit of a flirt and likes to drink. I have let her know I can't have booze in the house, and she has reluctantly agreed. Although it took some time. She is constantly talking about how she still wants to lead a "wild" lifestyle and fells like being with me is kind of a burden. On the other hand, I am ready to settle down with the right woman and start a family. I love her to death but our differences are becoming more obvious. I know she loves me and I love her. Any ideas?

2007-10-21 07:23:58 · 6 answers · asked by ryan b 1

**he didn't ejaculate

2007-10-21 07:23:48 · 13 answers · asked by Fruitful 1

If I am just barely filing for divorce and a friend of a friend asked me to hang out, is it too soon to go with him? He just asked me to go to a Haunted house with him. If my divorce is just starting and not finalized yet, is it too soon to start having some fun?

2007-10-21 07:23:42 · 20 answers · asked by In over my head 2

i like this guy but he doesnt know i like him. he likes me and flirts alot but i dont know how to respond to his flirting so i just smile. i dont want him to give up on me because i never flirt back or show him any sign...and suggestions.

2007-10-21 07:23:19 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

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2007-10-21 07:18:31 · 2 answers · asked by =]] 3

Why does love feel like u've thrown ur heart away
You give an take but nothing works
You laugh you cry
And constantly wonder why,
things will end up this way
I dream at night
that he is the one
the one that lied
cheated
broke my heart
made me cry
took my self respect
my diginity and
now i cant get myself back
u broke me down
laughed with your friends
told me you loved me and
where did it end up.
No where Can anyone answer why does love hurts?

2007-10-21 07:17:05 · 13 answers · asked by *!Its Shay!* 1

am really not sure if i should go out with this guy or not.im 15 and he is 17 almost 18.I know that he likes me and i like him. But there is 2 problems.1)I met him a couple of weeks ago and never told my parents.They found out about him and i told them i never knew who he was because i didnt want to get into trouble they dont like me out with older people .A couple of days later i told them the truth but lied about his age.My parents said i wasnt allowed to see him or hang around with him.They dont know his age or that he likes me or anything. they also think that it is my friends cousins friend.2) i dont know if i should go out with him because he is 2 years older than me.soon he will be goin to university and doing things that i am too young for.He is really nice and caring and wouldnt push or force me into things that i didnt want to do but im just not sure if i should.
i just want to know what i should do because i have been thinking about it and cant make a decision .

2007-10-21 07:10:47 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

i found out he doesn't like me anymore. and i hate myself for being too afraid to talk to him when he did like me. I still see him every other day, but we both just ignore each other. it makes me so sad..,.what do i do? i cant stop wishing i had just asked him out then. :(. it would be so awkward if i finally started talking to him again, since then he'd know i liked him. I think he already knows though.... he probably just doesnt care

any advice...?

2007-10-21 07:09:58 · 21 answers · asked by someone 2

2007-10-21 07:09:23 · 1 answers · asked by Maro B 1

Out of my own curiousity someone asked a question i found interesting about what women are thinking during sex. My question is, what are men thinking about during sex? What are some things that turn you on or turn you off

2007-10-21 07:04:34 · 8 answers · asked by Jersey Sweetheart 4

2007-10-21 06:57:00 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

Would you do it? I met this great guy from Craigslist and it's like a dream because he is really sweet and genuine. We met last night and it was amazing. I'm turning 17 soon and he's only 19.

2007-10-21 06:56:28 · 7 answers · asked by In hiding 4

Yeah, I am lonely. But seriously. I am not into the romantic passion. Commitment with intimacy is my definition of love. My friends who believe in companion love have stayed together for over 10 years.

2007-10-21 06:55:31 · 13 answers · asked by gary L 4

all he does is just waste time on something esle than to talk to me or even see me.We always see eachother at night like at 10 or so just bc he's parents are sleepin. also he says he wants to marry me but it seems if he doesnt hav time for me right now but will it make different once we get marry or will he still be the same ?? ????any good advice????

2007-10-21 06:47:27 · 8 answers · asked by ViRY 2

My ex and i broke up recently and to be honest, i haven't come into terms of accepting it. Maybe because i loved him sincerely. The thing here, i just discovered - from him, that he never loved even from the beginning of our relationship. That he only used me for some selfish reasons. I know there is no point crying over him coz he is not worth it but even though i bid my goodbye to him, personally... i find it so hard to just move on and forget about him. It has been a month now since we broke up but everything seems so fresh. He told me to not bother him and leave him for good. It hurts me so much but at the same time, i am mad at him. I feel like my world stop when he ended the relationship. I know, he is a prick, a jerk, name him anything but i still want him. Can you give me some sensible advice?

2007-10-21 06:36:42 · 8 answers · asked by peek-a-boo 1

I'm a completly respectful person. I think the world of her and do not want to lose her. Her parents think that I am a loser and just using her becuase I am dating someone who is 5 1/2 years younger than me. They have no interest in meeting me whatsoever. I want to make this work if at all possible because she is really special to me. Any advice would be very helpful...

2007-10-21 06:10:20 · 37 answers · asked by nicholas.dodson 1

i think i found out the reason this girl stopped talking to me..damn was i dumb for saying this. we were talking on the phone n she was listening to a song and said "aww this song makes me not want to be single n e more". and i said "dont listening to it." then like the next day completely stopped talking to me for good, i didnt really mean to say it, it kind of just came out but i wasnt really serious about it. i really liked her n she liked me, i know i shouldve said something else. ive been single for 2 years so i guess i wasnt really equiped for saying the right thing cuz im used to joking and being an asshole with my cousin on the phone.so i guess that smart *** comment slipped out. ladies would you stop talking to a guy u just met and he said that to u? is that where i went wrong?

2007-10-21 05:54:09 · 30 answers · asked by It's My Turn 4

2007-10-21 05:48:42 · 12 answers · asked by Mindi 2

when a man is 30 years old and is dating a woman, is this an age normally when a man is looking for stability and wanting to settle down?

2007-10-21 05:46:42 · 4 answers · asked by kelly k 1

I met this guy a couple weeks ago and we have been talking since,I have gone out with him three times now.Twice we ended up sleeping together,nothing more than coudeling,for i was hurt really bad in my last relationship and it has been a long time since i have been with someone else.I think Im starting to really like this guy,and he seems so respectful,never tries to push me for more,he just holds me.Could this build to something more?Or does it seem like it may only be physical? Is it not normal to start a relationship off like this?(hopping in bed together too soon??even though there was no sex)

2007-10-21 05:38:35 · 1 answers · asked by kelly k 1

2007-10-21 05:37:01 · 4 answers · asked by blueyzfrider 1

Ok you have to choose between the guy you truely love deeply or the guy you have wanting to be with forever? You care about them both very much, but you have to choose one. So who would you choose?
For me I chose the guy I truely love deeply but now I don't know if I chose the right guy! I want to be with them both to see which one I should choose but I dont know if they would I agree. Any advice?
Thanks in advance!

2007-10-21 05:31:26 · 41 answers · asked by I love him! :) 3

everything was good till this last 1/2 year. I had problems dealing w work, family, health. she had some too. It seemed like I just smuttherd her too much by always doing too much for her. I became insecure and always had to call her all the time, tex, email, know what she was doing ect. However this was not unpurpose, i just really loved her. Over the summer we had a couple 1 week breaks. Last month she told me she think we still needed time apart.I got really upset and emotially and just left. we were both crying.Since then I got really insecure and kept calling, texing, jut pushing her away.she has said she just wasnt happy, but then she says he needs time.Anyways this last week I realied alot of things and want to be calm and laidback like i always was.i got a new really good job that I am happy. Iam like i used 2 be.She has aggred 2 meet4 lunch tom. I knowshe expects me to be a begger. what can i do to make her think twice?I am a really nice guy and have done everythng 4her.

2007-10-21 05:27:18 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

yesterday i went to a halloween party (girl-boy) and we were watching disturbia. and in the "woman" scenes, the boys were all making perverted noises. it was really weird and akward. should i just let it go and laugh about it or set 'em strait???! HELP!

2007-10-21 05:26:15 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

Its like whatever he pretty much ask me to do i do it know matter what it is ,but its like he does not do the some thing for me in turn. I do things for him outer the kindness of my heart, beacuse i love him very much , but he does not do the some thing in turn. should i keep on doing things for him?

2007-10-21 05:26:07 · 16 answers · asked by Alyssa B 1

I'm his first gf, so he might not have a lot of experience of how to be a good bf. But It's been forever since he called me, the last tie he called was in August and it was on my b-day. But He hasn't asked me out on a date since June. That was our first date, and we've never had a second one. I know, I'm his first gf, but I just keep have this feeling that I should break up with him, because he isn't meeting my needs. What should I do, should I wait a little longer and tell im what he's doing wrong, or should I just break up with him next week??

2007-10-21 05:21:44 · 17 answers · asked by Mystify 1

okay, me and this guy have had sex about twice now and i was a virgin before we had sex. We arent dating, but we are attracted to each other. I have commitment issues first of all, and once, i brought up the fact that we arent dating but having sex and he asked me if i wanted to date and i said no. But now i feel like i shouldn't really be sleeping with him if we arent at least committed in a relationship. I think he likes me because he tries to respect my wishes. I told him i need to be appreciated after sex so he holds me close and strokes my hair afterwards. Does that show he cares about me? because the first time he just wanted to go to sleep afterwards and i gave him hell about it so he changed the second time. He told me that he cares about me alot but i just dont believe him and i think he is talking to other girls. How can i make him committed to me, do you think he only wants sex from me? should i stop having sex with him until he commits to a relationship? thanks

2007-10-21 05:13:15 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous