i found out he doesn't like me anymore. and i hate myself for being too afraid to talk to him when he did like me. I still see him every other day, but we both just ignore each other. it makes me so sad..,.what do i do? i cant stop wishing i had just asked him out then. :(. it would be so awkward if i finally started talking to him again, since then he'd know i liked him. I think he already knows though.... he probably just doesnt care
any advice...?
2007-10-21 07:09:58 · 21 answers · asked by someone 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Looking at your Avatar made me want to give you a HUGE hug! It's okay! If he ever did like you, he will again. Start by saying Hello and see where it goes from there.
2007-10-21 07:14:00 · answer #1 · answered by Whynot 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you are not speaking now why don't you try writing him a letter. I know it sounds cheesy but what do you have to lose? If he don't like what you have to say what is the worst thing that will happen? He already isn't talking to you. So tell him how you feel and why you didn't tell him before. Go girl you can do it.
2007-10-21 14:13:59 · answer #2 · answered by Megan E 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm still in the same situation you are in.I'm still wondering if this boy still likes me.I was to shy to talk to him.All can tell you is if you like him tell him and if he rejects you move on.You never know sometimes boys start to like you all over again.Or if your like me and too shy to talk to any boy just wait it out.If he still likes you he'll act first if he doesn't your heart will heal eventually even if it doesn't feel like it now.Believe me he's not gonna be your last crush.If you want to get over him try to avoid him.Im telling you it will work.I've done it with different crushes.If you happen to see him don't look at him.Just look down as you walk until you past him.There's too many fine boys to stay stuck on one.
2007-10-21 14:26:09 · answer #3 · answered by Nuchjaree P 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Keep your chin up and your nose down.
When you walk by him you don't have to do anything you don't feel comfortable about doing.
Actually, let time ride it out and during this time say hello only to him when passing by, that will show him you are the bigger person.
It doesn't mean you "ask him out" . It only implies that you are saying hello.
If you find that you can't then don't.
sometimes things happen for a reason, ride it out and start focusing on others/fiends, etc. every day will get better.
2007-10-21 14:18:30 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
its ok sweetie the most valuable advice i can give you is dont worry about the things you cannot change and dont beat yourself up. Im sure youre a very sweet girl and youll see that one day youll find someone great and then youll be glad you were free to see him. There is someone out there for you and things happen for a reason, maybe you guy is just around the corner.
much luck
2007-10-21 14:14:19 · answer #5 · answered by just plain me 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
OMG, honey. I had the same EXACT problem last year. I still don't know what to do because I used to like him a lot. and I still miss him. I'm trying my best not to think about him but honestly, it's not working especially me and my boyfriend broke up :(
Just try to think about something else, i know it's hard but you gotta do it. That's what I'm trying to do.
P.S. My story is a lot worst that yours. Because everything that happened was completely my fault. In addition to that I had a very controlling boyfriend who'll follow me everywhere.
2007-10-21 14:16:10 · answer #6 · answered by Guesswho? 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If i could i would tell you all the bad things about relationships and marriages, but i'm just going to say that you should never have gotten invloved with a relationship i feel bad im sorry
2007-10-21 14:13:53 · answer #7 · answered by AFRO THUNDER 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you shouldn't hate yourself for something out of your control. emotions and feelings for someone don't just turn on and off. if he had feelings for you before then deep down in there somewhere he has feelings for you now. just gather some bravery and ask him out for coffee or lunch. just be brave. if he says no then there is a good chance he never liked you before. good luck, don't beat yourself up over a guy, the right one is out there somewhere, weather it's him or someone else. take care and good luck
2007-10-21 14:14:59 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Gurl im goin thru the same thing right now. I know this might not help you but i just wanted 2 let you know that u're not the only one. But remember this "no guy is worth your tears and the one who is wont make you cry!" HOPE YOU FEEL BETTER!!!
2007-10-21 14:14:10 · answer #9 · answered by ? 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
go ahead and dry your eyes and fix yourself up alittle, now go over there and talk to him and don't be shy about asking him out it is ok, and you will see that you can work out this little problem, and still have the person you want!
2007-10-21 14:15:50 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋