If I am just barely filing for divorce and a friend of a friend asked me to hang out, is it too soon to go with him? He just asked me to go to a Haunted house with him. If my divorce is just starting and not finalized yet, is it too soon to start having some fun?
2007-10-21 07:23:42 · 20 answers · asked by In over my head 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It is just hanging out. It is not like he is asking you to marry him. Is anytime too soon to have fun? Just because you are getting divorced does not mean you have to sit around and be miserable. Maybe your friends are trying to help you keep your mind off of the bad things in your life and not trying to get you into bed.
You need to decide for yourself. Are you sure you are going to go through with the divorce? How do you feel about it? How are you looking at this invitation - a date or just friends hanging out?
I have yet to see any rules or laws on how long you have to wait after one relationship before you start to live again. I think the answer to that question is within each of us. Do you feel uncomfortable with it? If so, then it is probably too soon for you.
Both myself and my ex husband started seeing other people before our divorce was final (of course our divorce took a year and a half to be finalized). He married the girl he was seeing and it only lasted 5 years. I am still with the man I started seeing and have been with him now for 13 years.
Everyone is different, no one can decide what is right for you but you. What do you think about it?
2007-10-21 07:35:47 · answer #1 · answered by Girl Next Door 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Did you ever see that movie... Nicholas Cage is in it..
Anyway , I cant remember the name, but he is very close to divorce, but whilst he's still married he basically goes on a date with another woman that seems more fitting for his character. I know this is only a movie and I really dont know where Im going with this , but if youre inline for divorce, then it shouldnt matter whether or not you even go on a date or two whilst still married. As long as your sure you will be divorced, it should be absolutely fine.
Good luck.
2007-10-21 07:30:04 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go out and have fun.
Just because you are in the middle of a divorce should not mean you cant go out and have fun.
If you want to just stay at home on your own eating chocolates, crying about your broken heart ,isnt it just becoming the sterotypical breakup for a girl.
Break the mould. And who said you cant have fun.
What right do they have to tell you what you can and cannot do?
Get out there and have fun.
You'll make it a nicer experience.
2007-10-21 07:29:23 · answer #3 · answered by mabel :) 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't even think about the timings or you'll never know when is the right time. You just need to get out there and have fun, forget about the old partner and don't turn it to one of the sad people who have 21 cats to share a bed with
2007-10-21 07:27:53 · answer #4 · answered by lollipopbug 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ii say NO becauzze u need too get ur husband out of ur head so ii thiink u should go > and have some fun!!thatzz what ii think because iif ii just got a diivorce ii would try too get my wiife ouit of my head and go do somethiin..SO I WANT U TO GO TO DAT HAUNTED HOUSE AND HAVE A GOOD TIME!!!!
2007-10-21 07:28:08 · answer #5 · answered by |BiTCH|iMMA DO M3 =] 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say its Little to soon and wait till the divorce is final. because if you end up not divorce him you hurt every one.
2007-10-21 07:27:05 · answer #6 · answered by Jesse M 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Hell, only you can answer that one. But life is short, and if it feels good, go for it. I would.
He wants to take you to a haunted house? It was discos in my day - how times have changed.
2007-10-21 07:29:10 · answer #7 · answered by Ms Minger 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You need to give yourself to heal. You are in a very vulnerable state right now and too open to being used or hurt. Take good care of yourself and give yourself some time.
2007-10-21 07:27:59 · answer #8 · answered by ceegt 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no it is not too soon to go and have fun you show the other guy that you are not sad and he will say she is over it you show him youn can have fun without him girl
2007-10-21 07:28:25 · answer #9 · answered by Tee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, unless you think he as bad intentions, but if you're just friends have some fun!
2007-10-21 07:48:03 · answer #10 · answered by MD 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋