am really not sure if i should go out with this guy or not.im 15 and he is 17 almost 18.I know that he likes me and i like him. But there is 2 problems.1)I met him a couple of weeks ago and never told my parents.They found out about him and i told them i never knew who he was because i didnt want to get into trouble they dont like me out with older people .A couple of days later i told them the truth but lied about his age.My parents said i wasnt allowed to see him or hang around with him.They dont know his age or that he likes me or anything. they also think that it is my friends cousins friend.2) i dont know if i should go out with him because he is 2 years older than me.soon he will be goin to university and doing things that i am too young for.He is really nice and caring and wouldnt push or force me into things that i didnt want to do but im just not sure if i should.
i just want to know what i should do because i have been thinking about it and cant make a decision .
2007-10-21 07:10:47 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
my parents dont know him at all. they have never met him, they just know that we hang around. i had to lie to them because if i hadnt then i would never have been allowed to go out and hang around with him.
2007-10-21 07:18:49 · update #1
nobody can make this decision 4 u only u can make your mind up but my opion is that i dont think u should go with this man as u under age 4 a start and he may take advantage of that
2007-10-21 07:18:12 · answer #1 · answered by in love and its great 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hon', as corny as it sounds, there are lots of fish in the sea. It's not that he's too far ahead, but age difference means everything at your age. If one of you will cross the line to adulthood and leave the other behind more than a year, than it just won't work out.
If you really have faith in this guy, than you can wait for him. If you don't want to wait, don't be ashamed! There are guys out there 397 times better!
All I can say is to follow your heart, but only if your mind doesn't know better. See, all you can do right now is either wait or move on, because your parents won't stand for you dating this guy. They know what's best, as much as you want to deny it. So, if you really are sure, wait for him.
If you want my opinion, I would just move on. You're still young, and you don't want to leave the innocence of teen dating behind.
I hope you make the right choice. I can only say what the best two of all are. Good luck!
2007-10-21 07:23:11 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look if her really likes you. He will respect your wishes for time. In the mean time you can find out if hes worth keeping and going through all the trouble with your parents (that will happen).
So give your self some more time because hormones and out side pressure can lead to major mistakes
2007-10-21 09:01:00 · answer #3 · answered by Sun Child 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should just stay friends for now, explain to him that you do really like him but don't want to get into a relationship if he will be going off to uni! You dont want to upset your parents and as exciting as sneaking around may seem it normally ends in trouble! get to know him as a friend and take it from there hun!
2007-10-21 07:15:56 · answer #4 · answered by Saffy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont think u should go out with him. i know tha tmay sound harsh, but ur still in high school and hes going to university, and if ur parents already think bad of him then it wont work, im sorry.
but the decision is down to u
good luck.
2007-10-21 07:15:40 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he was really nice and caring and a good person, you wouldn't have felt the need to lie to your parents and hide him from them.
2007-10-21 07:15:55 · answer #6 · answered by janicajayne 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋