I had asked previously in my last question "Do I have a chance in getting back with my ex-girlfriend?" and got several great reponses, thank you to those who did. But, I am curious what i should do, and where I stand....I am just unsure how to act around my ex...even though i try to play it cool and act like i did before we went out. I am also unsure if i'm reading signs correctly if she still likes me....please help? and feel free to ask questions if that can help you decide what I should do.
2007-10-21 14:26:01 · 15 answers · asked by Prudential Intern 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
some signs are; she seems to pay attention to me more now than while we were going out, she's more talkative to me (while we went out, she'd talk to people around her in class and not me), I asked her to my school's fall semi while we were going out but since now we're not i decided to still ask her to go "as friends" but i told her if she felt awkward about it...that I'd understand, but she still said she'd like to go. The first person she sees when she enters to classroom is me and says hi to....the other day she found me in the lab and came up to me and waved to get my attention when I was paying attention to my reading on the computer....she returned all my stuff I asked for back and did not return the gifts I gave her.....yeah....
but she broke up with me because she said she felt nothing for me, but the cause was because we had not hung out all school year and she's very focused on her schoolwork...
2007-10-21 14:34:15 · update #1
she wrote me a letter to me the day after we broke up saying that she loves me and always will but now only as a friend, and she does not foresee her feelings changing...but it has been over a week, and with all these signs....it's confusing me....
2007-10-21 14:36:10 · update #2
Also, this is her first relationship....
2007-10-21 14:37:02 · update #3
i say, risk it all u have nothing to lose. u may have the luck that she still has feelings for u. try to win her heart again. show her that u have changed for good.don't act unsure, but still don't act cocky.Remember in love and war everything counts!! but don't be a stalker if after u have done everything, she's still distant. then she got over you and try to be her friend. Also be direct, tell her how u feel, we like that. but also be mentally prepared for a nono. okis?. Hope I helped!
2007-10-21 14:34:08 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Many of the problems you may be facing could be just the tip of the iceberg on what is really happening in your marriage. I dont mean to scare you but many problems when they either first show up or if they keep reoccurring could be just whats showing from a larger problem that either you or your spouse cannot even see. One of the only things you can do to help is to talk honestly and openly with each other in the marriage. If things become more serious more serious options need to be looked at as possibilities. I have a blog that has more information on some of what I've been writing about. If you feel like checking it out I would completly suggest it. Read here https://tr.im/NIb9u
Love is a choice that is made everyday when you wake up and every night when you go to sleep. Some days you may not feel the original feeling but love isnt a feeling or an emotion. Its an action a verb. Falling out of love may just mean you need to spice things up a little or that you were never in love in the first place. Don't just get out of a marriage just because you don't think you like the person anymore.
2016-07-19 01:00:16 · answer #2 · answered by Hanslay 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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Many girls break up with their significant others, is because they need time to figure things out. Don't take it personally, if you want her back, you have to show her you can help her. If you love her then you'll let her go, that's it. Not everybody who you date in high school you end up staying with, the chances are extremely unlikely. So if she doesn't want to, then you need to let her go.
2014-10-22 17:41:27 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love was not meant to be hard or hurt so badly. Yes it is work, but not what you are going through. Do not play games (unless you are 12 yrs old) tell her how you feel, if she does not look at your relationship as you do--better you know now! Yes it hurts, but just think about what the future holds for a sensitive,loving person as you!?
2007-10-21 14:35:09 · answer #4 · answered by kimberlee g 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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This is probably the most important part. With texting, you can stop and think about what you want to say to your ex at each step of the way. Instead of reacting emotionally, you can take your time, figure out the right thing to say (I’ll give you most of it), and be strategic with your ex without saying something that you’ll regret.
2016-04-25 22:19:33 · answer #5 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You will have a better Chance if you tell her how you feel . Get you head out of your butt because you trying to act cool , When you should tell her how you feel before you lose her. By acting cool with it she will move on . Don't let that happen , At least you will know Right!
2007-10-21 14:33:39 · answer #6 · answered by Kerry J 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go out and try to date some other people for awhile. the best way to get over an ex is with someone else.
2007-10-21 14:29:32 · answer #7 · answered by curious_One 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just ask her straight out if she sees you 2 getting back together.but if you broke up for a bad reason and can not trust her then don't bother.
2007-10-21 14:30:15 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-08-05 21:55:59 · answer #9 · answered by wally 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
quit "acting". Be yourself. Life's too short to walk on pins and needles around someone. Let that be your first clue ~!
2007-10-21 14:30:19 · answer #10 · answered by Scorpius59 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋