i can get when im alone and thinking about her but for some reason i cant keep one when im around her im worried because i love her so much and i want to satisfy her
this is my last stop before the doctor
ill try anything especially diet
thank you for any help
2007-10-21 14:19:53 · 9 answers · asked by matman 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
its not all the time sometimes i can keep them for the whole time im with her
and sometimes i get them and have them for a while then they go away
2007-10-21 14:23:24 · update #1
Relax.
2007-10-21 14:23:30 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 1⤋
There are hints of doubt in every decision, and how you react after the breakup can either confirm or contradict those doubts. Begging, pleading, and groveling will not win her back. Behaviors and actions portraying you as needy or desperate will only support her impulse to end your relationship.
You'll also commit the critical mistake of turning her support group against you. Every action and mistake you've made is multiplied as it's discussed and examined at length with her family and friends. In most cases, the less they have to talk about the better your situation will be.
Every woman wants what they can't have, and if you've stopped calling, texting, and sending emails every twenty minutes they'll want to know why.
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2015-06-04 13:10:13 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You probably can't get it up because you are so WORRIED about pleasing her! It's natural to be concerned about your performance.
Maybe if you stop worrying about HOW it's going to be with her, and just BE WITH her, then you'd have better luck.
You could try that , or look into the possibility that you may not be right for each other and your sub-conscience is telling you body to not bother.
2007-10-21 14:24:56 · answer #3 · answered by sweetpea73 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
if you can get one when you're alone, i wouldn't think there's anything medically wrong. And if it happens when you're thinking of her, i guess you're attracted to her that way. So all i can think is, do you feel nervous when you're with her or in that situation? It could be that you're so worried and stressed out about trying to please her that you forget to enjoy it yourself. Sex is just as much mental/emotional as it is physical. Whenever i worry too much about not pleasing my man (he had a lot of experience,i didn't), i can't enjoy it at all and it just ruins the whole moment. Just try to focus less on "pleasing her" and more on trying to connect with her. Making love should be about the love first and foremost, then everything else should just fall into place
2007-10-21 14:40:02 · answer #4 · answered by Miss Understood 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
You said it yourself when you said you "want to satisfy her" ... that's your problem... you're putting far too much pressure on yourself. think less about your performance for this woman and think more about your own enjoyment...
Seriously, you don't need a doctor, you just need to relax. Trust me...
If this girlfriend is at all cool she should be totally understanding and willing to HELP you relax. Don't expect it to happen over night, it may take awhile before you'll be fully comfortable around her but rest assured... it will happen eventually.
2007-10-21 14:24:49 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
The question of how to get your ex to text you back is no cut-and-dry answer, and before you try to get your ex to respond to your texts, take mind of the following consideration.
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The consideration is how long has it been since the breakup. If it's been only a few days, you are not on the right path to ever getting your ex to text you back nor getting your ex back as well. In fact, what you're doing is pushing them further away.
2016-04-10 21:22:56 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 23⤊ 0⤋
Getting your ex back permanently isn't guaranteed by using text messages as your main weapon, but it is a solid approach. Communication or lack of it is one of the main reasons why people break up. Text messages, when used carefully can resolve these issues and prove a good medium to solve difficult problems in relationships.
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2015-08-18 21:07:06 · answer #7 · answered by Zorah 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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