My bf and I got into a big fight last night, and he broke up with me this morning. The fight was about a stupid issue, but it was both of our faults. Anyway, he said he loves me, cares about me a lot, and that I'm the girl of his dreams. Even so, he can't be in this relationship. However, he told me this morning that we should talk tomorrow. I just received the following e-mail from him:
"I don't think that we should talk tomorrow. I think it is best if we just stay away from each other for a while."
What does this mean? Is there any hope for us to get back together?
2007-10-21 15:14:51 · 17 answers · asked by skichamonix515 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just relax. You're fresh off of an argument. Let him and you cool your heads and then talk.
2007-10-21 15:18:20 · answer #1 · answered by Sic Semper Tyrannis 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
He sounds confused. One minute he is saying you are the girl of his dreams the next he is staying he should stay away from each other for a while. I think give him space for a few days let him get a clear head. If he still thinks that you should have time away then I think maybe he is trying to break up with you.
2007-10-21 22:19:43 · answer #2 · answered by kizza 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It doesn't sound like there's no hope, but I wouldn't hold out for him either. Give him space and move on (and I don't mean jump into another relationship, I mean move on emotionally). Treat it like it really is over, and if you guys get back together down the road, fine. If not, you have to be ok with that too. Good luck.
2007-10-21 22:18:31 · answer #3 · answered by ♥ Honest Heart ♥ 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like he need some time away to think, get some distance, and heal. Maybe if ya'll are meant for each other y'all will get back together. But it sounds like y'all need some time right now. Just be patient and go on with life. Don't let it worry you or get you down.
2007-10-21 22:19:03 · answer #4 · answered by Ashton theKID 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are going to break up over something stupid NOW, just think about if something that is NOT supid happens and you are married to him.
It takes compatibility to make a marriage work, even a b/f-g/f relationship.If you dont have compaitiblity, love alone will fail you eventually.
2007-10-21 22:20:30 · answer #5 · answered by Joe F 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give him space and his wishes, doesnt sound too good but the fight is only fresh leave it until he comes back to you, do not chase him trust me!!
He should get over it :)
2007-10-21 22:18:34 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
sometimes spaces between two people are necessary for us to realize how we feel about....
i guess its not really over.. Before ending up a relationship i believe that you two have to talk it firs and agreed on both decision...
just let the two of you have spaces, so both of you can think for a while...
2007-10-21 22:25:08 · answer #7 · answered by ○♫mhytzhe○♫ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Back off for a while and give him his space. He needs to clear his mind and his priorities. If he really does love you, he'll be coming back.
Time will tell.
2007-10-21 22:45:01 · answer #8 · answered by Athena 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give him his space. It sounds like he needs time to cool off and think about things.
2007-10-21 22:20:21 · answer #9 · answered by Morganna 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think its just fight... not "the fight" guys usually don't say that stuf unless the rreeaaalllyy mean it... i think he's just mad cuz u didn't say it back... just give him space for a little while and he'll come back around
2007-10-21 22:22:51 · answer #10 · answered by puppy_girl1095 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋